Communicate with opposite sex

last SG · 2006-11-15T00:23:31+00:00

well, i think this is borne in some of the guys ba. they naturally neve run out of topics. n gals will keep on talkin to thm, without thm having to stress ou...

Y_Shun SG

Hello, I need pointers on how to communicate with my opposite gender's friends aka female friends.

Most of the time when we chat, we come to a stop...cause I dunno what to chat about, and she also dunno...then a bit awkard...hope to get some pointers here!

Quinsy SG

talk about fashion, movies, talk about her. hope that helps. Wink

Rock^Star SG

Communication is an art, not something which can be learned overnight.

As the saying goes, "the best place to learn swimming is in the pool, not out of the pool."

Go and chat up as many gals as u can, make all the mistakes u have to make and trust me, u will have improved tremendously by that time.

kaister SG

Read up on general knowledge, current fashion trends, gossips (sure work for this one) and find out things she’s interested in.

Patrik SG

Perhpas u will be more suited to chat with people of the same sex.
Smile Smile Smile

kaitokura SG

i thought i have same case with u. Crying or Very sad some gals i dare to chat until A-Z..
some gals i can't coz my brain suddenly hang.. dunno which topic to talk.. darn!
Any advice?!

Mr. Green

abigor SG

Haha try reading the book whatsit "She's from Venus and He's from Mars" or something like that.

Girls love to be pampered and showered with attention.

Ask about her dress, her work, her holidays.

If she is frustrated over something, be a listening ear for her.

Girls also attracted to knowledeable guys (this is what I heard) in that there are more intelligent conversations.

Girls hate corky, show off guys. No class.

Ultimately, get to know her first by listening to her.
Once you know more about her likes and dislikes, you can talk to her on the things she likes to hear.

If you do not know about the things that she likes, go and find out. Come back next time and show to her you care about what they say. This will really melt their hearts.

Happy dating dude!

Dongseng SG

carrier pigeons
its romantic plus it works

UnheardUnknown SG

When youy talk to her talk about HER.v important.

Y_Shun SG

I just want to communicate, not develop BGR....

I dun want her to get suspicious of me or get the wrong idea of me...later screwed up, no need to be friends anymore. Confused

smudgey SG

what do u talk to your guy friends about?

iori8888 SG

Don't listen to their nonsense.
Now listen carefully, when it comes to silent again, just fart. Mr. Green

FireIce SG

talk about chee soon juan, mee siam w/o hum, manchester united, nokia n73 and whether she like to eat roti john

littlefishtan! SG

ask them about their life story lor.

#$%^&* SG

Ive been watching alot of David Letterman YouTube videos. I watch very carefully how he talked to the female interviewees. Why dont you catch afew of his videos, I think you will learn afew pointers.

Xtrider SG

Laughing him? k la...hes gd but i dun think u wan to interview ur frens rite...

Komon SG

Aiyoh last time i have the same problem with u but slowly enough u will learn how to communicate with dem deh la Mr. Green

nanren4ever SG

hmm, i think you just be yourself lor. If u are the chatty sort, then chat anything under the sun. Clothes, fashion, tv shows will be good conversation starters.

But if the opposite sex is someone u like, then u better watch what u say. I find that sometimes, gals would not go for guys who talk w/o thinking.

kawasaki2 SG

No problem. Cool Mr. Green

kenn3th SG

seriously, u need to make her feel that she is comfortable talking to u...
and it takes real practice to do it ba Very Happy
well, u can start by talking to her and asking her likes and dislikes and the things she loves to do. if u wann create a topic, u needa see what she's interested in, and u guyz can further talk about it. for eg, the korean drama goong seems to be a very popular topic nowadays, so if u know that she's watching, u can ask her about her opinions, and afte sometime, she will get to know u and u are able to communicate with her anytime Wink

tried that, did that, and it worked