mitgalant, I really feel tired of replying to u and advising
you.
we told you time and again, NOT to meet her, NOT to hope.... etc
but what do you do? you went to meet her and hoped for more
I totally agree with doko that you need time to heal,
this break up is like a wound that is both deep and painful. I
know.
but Like a wound, it'll heal with time and proper care.
BUT if you keep using your finger to Jab, poke, dig, and rub dirt
all over it, WILL IT HEAL? NO!
WILL IT GET INFECTED? YES! It'll get worse!
what you have been doing is not giving yourself time to heal, you
have been jabbing, poking, and dirtying your wound!
we have showed you how to clean your wound, how to bandage it up
and let it heal with TIME. but you did not heed our advices.
as devil said, taking her out of the picture is a great step to
healing your wound. she is like dirt, bacteria. she will only cause
you more harm then good.
well you should know what happens to a wound on your arm when you
expose it to bacteria and keep poking it. It get infected, the
infection gets worse, you could have to amputate your entire arm or
even Die from the infections.
things are not so different in your case.
we can provide you with the first aid kit, we could show you how to
take care of your wound, BUT IT IS UP TO YOU to do the rest.
