Disappointed and Sad

smudgey SG

Drop her NOW!!!

Protect yourself. my thinking is : She's in between guys now. meaning she's CURRENTLY single, hence she'll spare time with u... and enjoy ur company. but once another guy come along, she'll kick you to a side.

Space1999 SG

you sound so desperate and uncool i think you are not going to make it with her,
she is just appeasing you and she will definitely see him , be rest assured
my dear friend, wake up
game over

dokono SG

Dude,

When a girl says she has 0-10% level of feelings, it means you are dead in the water. No hope, no chance. She doesn't care for you when she dumps you or whatever you try to do to make her happy. She doesn't even want to see your face.

Yet you keep pressing her for an answer like a love-mad puppy. Im not trying to be hard on you but you must be hard on yourself to get past her. You are making a lot of mistakes. You are begging. "Please don't go...". You think this will work like it does in the movies? I tell you, 99% of the time it does not!

0-10% of feelings and you still want to force a dead fish to be with you. It's dead. Wake up..dead already. No use trying to save a dead r/s. Why marry
a dead fish?

Nothing to do with the guy but everything to do with you.

Spend some time with yourself and read our 4 pages worth of posts. Reflect on your mistakes. A woman cannot make you happy. You have been poisoned by your love for her. Start healing your heart.

If there is one single thing you must learn from our posts, women with self-esteem hate guys who are damn fvcking needy. Being needy means you are weak. You need to work on that.

Girls,those who are reading this post, if you don't love a guy anymore, don't give him false or "real" hopes, for the sake of a backup/standby/accompany.

doko

ski8 SG

what women want ...

really

really really

bazi SG

Hi,
I wanted to write to u in the first moment but I stop cos i wanna c how is ur gf reacted to ur talk wif her.

Dats is what i expected....... sorry if my words are very hard to swallow but face it man, this is the conclusion....

Your gf has change of heart already since the day u hv a cold war wif her. There is a 3rd party in your r/s now. Infact, ur gf has the answer in her heart already but she is reluctant to tell u oni... when a woman changes her heart, there is no turning back.

My advise to u is, let go the rope..... i noe it is difficult but hei man u hv a long way to go, when u looses something, u will gain something. Maybe u will meet somebody better in the future.... Love or relationship is always a gamble, sometime u win, sometime u lose. Be a man and like a chinese saying "na de qi, fang de xia" dats a true man.

Move on n live well, trust me, time will heal ur heart..... go out n hv more social life, u will find hw wonderful life is bside boy girl relationship.

I dun want to give u false hope by telling u maybe she will come back to u but anyhw, this is only wat i feel towards wat u hv written. U hv a choice to listen or reject......

But anyway, u hv my blessing...... GOOD LUCK! Wink

Quest* SG

security Mr. Green

Space1999 SG

[Girls,those who are reading this post, if you don't love a guy anymore, don't give him false or "real" hopes, for the sake of a backup/standby/accompany.

doko[/b][/quote]

TRUE!!!great words of wisdom!! The problem with girls nowadays even if they are not in love , they just string us along maybe as backup or you know last minutes replacement.
Twisted Evil

Space1999 SG

Why dont you imagine she is bonking the other guy?easier to let go this way isnt it?
Twisted Evil

browniebaobao SG

hi threadstarter!

u mentioned that u had a quarrel with ur girl and then had a 1-2 mth cooling period. may i know, was it an agreement or who initiated it?

even if my fren bo chup me, nv contact me for such a long period of time, i also will doubt the friendship. not to mention bgr.

this guy came into the pic when she needed someone most ba. Thus, he got the advantage.

How often do u two quarrel? Always have cooling period after the quarrel? Too much of this makes 2 parties tired and start to think whether it's time to let go.

She told u that she's enjoying her singlehood. Somehow it also means that she can do without you. You have to do something about it, cherish her more, with or without that guy's existence. Girls need security and tender loving care.

Personally, if my bf nv contact me or tells me that we need to cool down and stop contacting for some time, it will make me feel insecure and hurt. Can't help if the feeling is shaken, or the confidence level is not there.

mitgalant SG

the cool off is request by me that time. cos i am really tired.

but now its like haiz.

Anyway we went out last time, i brought her to somewher very romantic, and have a nice dinner. well, so does not wanna hold my hands all these.

but last nite, we did talk and she mention she will still try and see if she can get the feelins back.

I feel that she still loves me, but yet she is so so confuse with the other guy. She told me whenever we come out, try not to talk abt this thing. But somehow or rather i juz cant stop my mouth frm blahin out.

How ?

in fact i am tryin to meet her as much time as i can. i am sendin her to work everyday. hopin to see her everyday.

she has assured me by sayin she will seldom contact that girl. But how trueful can it be ? i knw u guys ask me to leave her.But its really easier said than done.

I am tryin to gamble now. If i still fail, i know i will be in a stage where i cant climb out again or rather not so soon. Yet i am still tryin.

Really cant make her get the feelin back ? i really bu fan qi leh. I really think she still loves me. she is juz confuse now.

Can u guys teach me how to make her get the feelin back? last nite she is surprise by the place i brought her to. But i ask her did it get some feelins back, she said no. and this type cant happen over nite.

Guys, How to get a woman Feelin back ? I am trustin her when she say she will try. She even told me in the long run, maybe and she say MAYBE she might get the feelin back.

But yet last nite, b4 we end the call, she told me, " dun get so high on hopes. I dun wanna return to u cos of u bein romantic, i love ur family etc. But rather i hope to return to u cos i have the feelins for u"

dokono SG

Haha...she just told you the answer in the last line. She is being honest with you and not giving you false hopes. That's good. Take the hint and leave her.

You still want to go back and take more crap. What MAYBE? There is no maybe with girls. Either yes or no.

Can you bring a dead fish back to life? If you can, I think you must be a good magician. Bringing her feelings back? Instead of letting her miss you, you want to force the issue by trying to buy her things and taking her to restaurant. You have to stoop so low and become more BORING. Last minute work does not work with girls. It's your ego and high feelings at work here. That's why you cannot grasp the idea of leaving her.

doko

rainee SG

tink no matter wat we say, the threadstarter will still hang on to her... Neutral

Space1999 SG

he is useless, lets close the thread
he already decided on his course of action and despite what we tell him , he is going the other way

im disgusted with him Twisted Evil

Devil1976 SG

She've already told you she would 'try' based on feelings for you than anything else... Which is already explained by her to be standing at 0-10%... Do a bit of Maths and go figure...

I bet the reason why she's still giving you a bit of 'hope' is either because you're still pestering her or she's just too soft-hearted to hurt you bad...

If you don't wanna wake up on your own but rather choose to cling on to something which won't work out, then basically nobody can help you...

No matter what both of you have done in the past and how beautiful things were, the relationship's already dead by now... Cry if you must, but no use clinging on to a dead body....

Space1999 SG

i guess by now , you are disgusting to her too and she is complaining to the new guy
"how i get rid of him? he dont understand at all! he is so dumb"

dont you get the message?

VampireEB SG

Since she 'd already hinting you about her feeling towards to u and no point crying over the spilled milk. Wipe your tear and try not to think of her too much. Very Happy

Space1999 SG

leave with some pride
lose with some grace
let her have good memories of you as a gentleman
maybe
maybe
she will come back to you one day

but now you are just making yourself uglier and disgusting to her
Mr. Green

mitgalant SG

guys,i already told her le. i tell her nvm ba. lets break. i regret doin it. yet i knw i muz do it.

she say ok. and still wants to treat me as her fren. she is goin to be single now. she told me"but i duno how true it is" she will nt be goin into a relationshop now.

i dun mind waitin for her. cos she say maybe end of the day, we might still be together in future. she's waitin for me to mature, after my NS there might be hope

Tats y i am clingin to this hope now
i duno if i am doin the right things, but somehow i juz cant forget her. i duno what i can do to, am i waitin like a fool ? or am i juz lettin her play along. she told me she wont be goin together with tat guy ? tats the truth ?

anyway i am so so hurt. i will do anythin to get her back.

Space1999 SG

stick to what you say , dont be a fool!
be strong

M©+square SG

Insecurity again?

These word have been blaring to my face whenever i see such thread.
But at least you know your direction.

Arh neh.

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