mid twenties- losing friends stage?

last SG · 2006-10-25T10:29:09+00:00

try joining some courses from CC or RC or something... like take up yoga, or learn badminton or take up computer course etc...from there can widen your circ...

mhcampboy SG

Laughing

I started to volunteer there when i was like you years ago. I suddenly feel lost and thinking whether if my friends are really my friends or not...

so i occupy myself with the work and soon, friends started to miss me and they are the ones who called me up.. Mr. Green

so better than go outings go makan, watch movie or wad... might as well go and entertain the residents there right... Very Happy

Bontakun SG

*Interested.

Tell us more leh.

mhcampboy SG

Ermm I think its normal voluntary work. Never do before ar? Laughing

You can organize games or just keep the residents company or clean the place up.

But when I do go there, I will help the residents in their occupational and physical therapy...

siggh.. I miss some of them already.. Mr. Green

smudgey SG

well sometimes, it takes quite a bit of wk to keep in touch with friends...

I know. i'm also struggling with the juggling act....

if u say u miss your sec. sch friends, call them out. take action...

as for knowing new friends... join in activities... take up hobbies, courses... that way u'll know new friends

Bontakun SG

Wah... Liddat I oso join in my local RC liao. Mr. Green

Haoz30 SG

Hey, dun be despair lah. I'm the same age as you lo. I mean it's good that you got a job. Not everyone is as lucky as u, u know? At this stage of life, it's a matter of make or break. Everyone has different aims in life. You can't expect your friends to sacrifice their own aims just for you right?

I don't have much friends. I only have a grp of brothers.We seldom meet up but I know they are there for me whenever I need them. Just think on the positive side of things lah Wink

Battlecrusier SG

just find a hobby such as online gaming. spend more time with family or u grow older no time, that time u will be only thinking of earning money.my friends are also all busy. learn to be alone sometimes. Smile

huy SG

i think it normal.. i am only 22 yrs old but it seems like i have lost quite a number of fres.. as a working adult, every day i have been so busy with my work and too tired to meet them out for dinner and even weekends, i stay at home resting.. becos of that, now they no longer contact me as often, and i too didnlt make an initiaitive to contact them either.. so now i mostly spend my time alone.. it lonely but i pretty enjoy the freedom.. can learn to be independant too..

The Den SG

At first I enjoyed the freedom too.. but this long weekend everyone was mugging~ rushing for that deadline, attending to his girlfriend cos she's angry about something... few of them busy-ing with marriage~! It's like everyone is so busy when you hit 24? So happening man...

Buddies have holidays in december, hope it would be better than these few weeks...

Bontakun SG

Look forward to the holidays then. Wink

The Den SG

It's that I'm saddened that people are drifting away from each other... but I also glad that in case of emergencies, these buddies can help... do spca or any animal shelter accept volunteers on weekends? Smile

Cenarious SG

This topic puts my mind at ease because at that age I am going to be more used to this than other people.

The Den SG

Someone tell me how to solve this problem Confused

Cenarious SG

well people in sgforums are quite friendly so...

babymac13 SG

Sound like I'm not alone.

It seem like many of my frenZ are drifting apart due to personal committments as what stated in this thread.

Shocked Shocked

shinta SG

play game lor...

i play maple with some of the fellas here in sgf... we'd meet up once a mth or sth liddat...

a break from our gaming routine..

Laughing

smudgey SG

This is life.

ppl get together.... and slowly they grow apart....

is it sad? of course it is.... but it's part and parcel of life.

banzie SG

Want to come my church to know more friends??

The Den SG

It's true, I've met them once Smile

now waiting for devil to org another event, I sure will put my name

The Den SG

which church? Smile

I go to church too but everyone seems so crazy, so hurried about everything.

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