how to be nt that emotional?

Samuelpsw SG

thanks Botankun…actually this recent years, after experiencing some life-transforming phrase of my life…i’ve seen myself being more helpful..more caring and find that more ppl are coming to mi to confine their problems to me regardless relationship or family…but everyone is the same…we can give advice to others, but when it comes to our own prob, we tend to see the prob as a big big prob when it is only a small prob…this goes the same for me…i know that what i must do and should do, but the thing is that i jus cant take the 1st step to do it…there will be something tat will hinder us in what we wan to do..

Bontakun SG

I learnt this from a brother: Everybody has a story to tell. I can listen to other people's issues and problems but it is always ME who deemed MY problems the biggest because it concerns ME.

Its good to know you are improving yourself. Mr. Green

I do want to ask this though: Since you know what to do, what is the thing that hinders you from doing it and why?

ha8n SG

emtional had its good n bad points

if u dun have the slightest emtional ,ur even worse (unsuccessful) when ur with the girl u like

but still every girl has their views

shade343 SG

Is your horoscope a water sign? If it is, then its too bad lor. Laughing

Yunhaier SG

Why must wait for us to post then you can post ne?

I believe you can also contribute your post as an AA community to assist TS what. It isn't always needed to keep using a certain 'brand' of advice to every topic. As long I feel enough good advices are given, I don't necessary have to post what... not as if yunhaier must rush to have every topic marked with yunhaier's post.

More words doesn't mean more help leh (you see Tankh80 case), although it certainly mean additional perception. Just suffice (dian dao wei zi) will do the job nicely. Wink

Cheers

molgax SG

thats not really true

how bad can water be ?

water is good

TS : btw since now u know what u haf to do then do it if u keep feeling shItty what if u really dont get her ?

u will feel even worst then thats not the hard part

getting her isnt the hard part

KEEPING her is

and marrige if ur really serious and committed will be the final destination

be prepared for that cause if u dont intend to marry y get a gf ?

close friends are better than gfs

see what kind of r/s u would like to keep with the girl is most important

rane SG

Hi, Samuel Smile Cool

It is natural that you feel that way. Build up your confidence and may be you would like to read books on relationship to get to know yourself and the opposite sex better. Be objective if need be then you won't feel that you are all the while so emotional!

Samuelpsw SG

thanks for all the advice that you guys gave me…truly appreciate le…i will do something to it and also my horoscope sign is virgo..haha..

Bontakun SG

Eh... coz I oso learning mah. Den I see see what you peeps poot in here. Actually come to tink of it, doesn't matter who post first or post last. As long as TS can see some help from these postings can liao. -oo-

peaches_cher SG

Samuel, juz relax n take tings ez…she aint e onli gal ard n she’s nt a life-giver 2 u. e more u tink abt it, e more stressed u wil feel. relax & njoy life. life is short, we wil nv noe when we r gonna go. so juz take life as it is… =)

Samuelpsw SG

yeah…after some thinking..i koe that i have to carry on with life…regardless i have a gf or watsoever…friends and family are still there for mi..and of cos..this wonderful forum rox too..haha..

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