How fat is fat? 
It actually depends on individual. Some gals already have their
'ideal person' of tall, handsome, rich guy... in mind whereas
others look for somebody who really love em. Though u might lose
out on ur outward appearance, u can still impress people with ur
true self...
Yes, confidence is important.. it all starts frm urself. If u
really want to look good, go and slim down. To shed that weight, u
must have perseverance and the discipline. I believe that nothing
is impossible!
