You are in an age where people tends to COMPARE this and that.
It is ok to compare as long as you do not take it LITERALLY. BUT I
seriously think comparing does nothing much to the persons
involved, because if they get what they assume they want according
to comparisons, they may have missed out on BETTER things because
of their specific requirements.
You may be 165 (Mind you, I only 167 - 8 leh...) but who knows? You
may have qualities or virtues others do not seem to have at the
moment? Physical attributes are for the eyes to see and hands to
touch. Inner soul and mind are for the heart to know and
appreciate.
Slowly, you will understand what I meant and you will have no
problem with other people's comparisons and specifics because you
are beyond that and KNOW how to appreciate things and life as they
naturally are. Be it short or tall. 
