I have been away and stayed at my mom's place for past 3 days. I
am currently back home now, although problem has not been solved at
all.
Husband have tried to bring me home everyday. Until today, I
decided that I have cooled down, and alot of housework has to be
done at home, especially the twins will be off to school
tomorrow.
For 10 years, we return to his hometown every quater of the year.
During each visit, someone will show to me that I am either not
welcome or, name calling/insults.
Once, she is sat on the twin's clothings right on the chair, took
away a nice plastic container that mom-in-law gave me to put my
stuff in, and remove all me items from some place and put them
somewhere.
My elder sister-in-law dotes me like her own sister, which I am so
glad. At one trip, she gave me 1 bottle of perfume and some
bobbybrown makeup. I thanked her and left it on the table in our
room. I later found another box of expensive anti-ageing cream
costing about SGD$300 in a plastic bag right at my desk. I am not
sure if she gave it to me, but I just left it untouched. Next day
it was gone. I was surprised that she was looking for it. In the
end, the younger sis was the one who took and kept it.
Another time, she told the whole world bad things about me, and one
of the cousin showed me her face with eye contact.
Have anyone's been called a "dog shit" before? Her uncle did (when
I was first introduced to the family).
When I was pregnant with the twins, there was nothing for me to eat
in their home. Instead mom-in-law asked me to pack up some all
clothings that we left behind last trip, saying there was no
place.
There are so much more! The latest one is she asked her maid to
keep an eye on me, worrying I would be stealing her things. She
would hide behind the door of dressing room, which everyone shares,
and suddenly appears to "catch" me. I don't need to steal.
I tell myself never to return to that place again. Now my
mom-in-law(misses the twins), father-in-law (fell down, hurt
himself), and elder sis-in-law(free 5star hotel stay for us) is
trying to get me to go back. This is the second time I have popped
the word "divorce" to my husband this year. I even wrote it on the
MSN name: Divorce or not? Will it make everyone happier? The
younger sis saw it and try to ask me "how are you". I never spoke a
word for fear of trouble with her.
Right now, my mum have told me to keep the marriage going for the
kids.
I know divorce is impending because, I lack the emotional support
from my husband. My right palm is already showing a split marriage
line. Its just not now but maybe later, I guess. For all of you who
wanna know, I was a network engineer many years ago. I am not a
stupid person but then I am very gullible sometimes. Like my
husband said, I am kind but easily manipulated which is not
good.
Is it correct that I look for a lawyer to discuss about divorce
proceedings?
