Is it only me?

last SG · 2006-07-02T23:20:10+00:00

I think the first step in realising what you are to release the longing feeling that you still have with your ex. Release it. And you will understand yoursel...

R3SsH|n SG

if he comes hugging and kissing you...you feel uncomfortable..then definately you shld get him to stop...
like someone said...gradually will do the trick...

but if you are looking for someone who is more sensual emotionally...then i guess u shld stick to that category...its called "find the right one"

Ristar SG

its so obvious that he just wants sex la... Laughing

darknessfall SG

we are in 2006 now...

there are really very few of you left in singapore, where no kisses or hugs are allowed in a r/s...i must say, to a guy, without such, there is no feeling to be in a r/s..

some honey words/advices like, "if he really loves you, he should accept who you are"...but i must advice you, that is really a good fairy tale...
true, that you have to accept a person for who he/she is, but certain things, are hard to compromise...

in this case, not even a peck on the cheeks? Hmn..i think you and him have to sit down and talk about it, and probably, it is hard for a guy to accept it..
to get you as a gf, they will say yes to anything..after going out with you, they will start to persuade you...

conservatives gp like you are rare, and to find a guy who really appreciates and accept you, is endangered..good luck..have a good talk to him and tell him how both of you feel...

monoslayer SG

its not advisable to let him get too physical wif u.. initially, he may ask to hold ur hands, den kiss kiss, n gradually he will try to take things further.. if u r not comfortable, jus tell him straight.. anyway, i feel tat all he wan is jus sex..

CannyOng SG

I think his so call physical love is hinting you when both of u go in r/s. He wants to have sex with you! Are you still a virgin? If so remain that way! I admit physical contact(Kissing and hugging) can increase a couple bond but is not the critical ingredient for a true r/s to survive. If he really love u,he will not force you! Always remember that b y hard…

Simple_Bear SG

There are some things in a relationship that can't be compromised...

Mr. Green

Sakuraflower SG

Stay the way u are....

Dun jump too quickly into r/s cause u seen to long for people to take care of u...

personally I think just be friend with him.. if not comfortable dun go into it cause it will hurt u even more...

Raining Stars SG

Is it really that case? If it is really so, I would want to stop it even before I develop any more feelings for him.

browniebaobao SG

Make it clear to him that u are not with him to satisfy his sexual needs/desires.

He can always go Geylang wor.

What you want is love and respect. If he cannot respect you, forget about him.

Devil1976 SG

Not always the case lah.... Rolling Eyes

M©+square SG

Do you realise the newbies adoption to selective reading are getting more and more serious?

Raining Stars SG

Then how will I know if it is the case?

walesa SG

Go the distance and you'll find out in due course... Laughing

In all seriousness, with no disrespect, how many relationships have you been in? I've rarely, if ever, come across someone asking how she should react if the guy took the initiative and tried kissing/hugging her...

Devil1976 SG

There's no formula for it... It's very much based on your own experience, judgement, analysis and such... Even then, there still might not be guaranteed way of telling what's his true intention... It's a complicated process. It's quite unlikely that we would be able to tell just by sitting around here. And it seems unlikely for you to tell too since you're so inexperience?

My personal advice for you is if you're not comfortable with certain things, just keep your distance or avoid them... RESPECT is IMPORTANT at all level for MOST forms of positive relationships... But try not to be jumping into a conclusion too hastily, you'll never really know if it's just all a misunderstanding? Worse an unfair groundless spectaculation...?

Devil1976 SG

Maybe they read but they're not replying?

Anyway, what we can do is advise them... It's up to them to choose what advices they'll like to heed... We can't be controlling them on that, otherwise we'll be brainwashing instead....

dcx SG

Laughing

Sex's what he wants from you. Simple said.

If he's understanding and care about you, the "physical" term he meant shld not be even part of the compromisation...

He doesn't care about your problems, agony, doubts, thoughts, worries, concerns...he just want u to route into his direction....

Sorry for being blunt....

Those who know me directly/indirectly knows my pattern... Laughing

hMz...how come ah yun still haben arrive yet?

Raining Stars SG

Guess I am inexperience when it comes to guys who are more expressive. So far, the past relationships that I had were more of with guys who were less expressive?

M©+square SG

You don't have to sorry about your speculations.

However i agree that his love towards her is questionable.

Cheers

Yunhaier SG

I am a lurker of this thread....

/me throw smoke bomb and vanished back to hiding place. Laughing Twisted Evil

Cheers

N|ck SG

He has to respect your wishes and my advice to you is to believe in what you do and not just succumb to his wants just because you like him.

Talk to him about how you feel. Obviously it's about two people have two different wishes. If you two cannot come to compromise, then I suggest you leave him, it will only lead to nowhere.

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