Am I just thinking too much?

browniebaobao SG

Ah Nick, long time no see u here neh!

Ok la, 3 questions.

Was it just an One Night Stand?

Do u feel betrayed?

Do you fear that she will repeat something like that even when you are together?

N|ck SG

Hey.

Ya it was a one night stand

feel somewhat betrayed.

no i dun fear that.

anything pm me i go watch soccer now ha

FBI SG

at least she confess to u, if she doesn't then i think she isn't true to u

dcx SG

What do u think?

It's either u forget the incident or u leave her (An excuse to forget her)...What's the point of remembering or holding it onto u?

I've worse scenario than yours....not by any forms of betrayal..

So, be glad that she actually confessed to u as she still hold u in a very important place of her heart...

Laughing

Devil1976 SG

Hmm....

Devil1976 SG

Realise that it's a lock on your mind... Something you CHOOSE to HOLD ON...

If you don't wanna forget about it, we cannot force you also... Neither can we choose to forget on your behalf....

Perhaps you might just get a clearer picture when the guilt starts to rub up your girl and sours your relationship a bit...?

used SG

she trust you thats why she told you. dont lose that trust

N|ck SG

mmm thanks guys, never really thought about that, the whole she trust me thing. Yeah I think I am getting overly paranoid and overreacting over the incident. Trying to accept it now and be thankful that it’s not an open and shut case of cheating and that she deemed it important to tell me about it.

M©+square SG

Ah...finally you see A ray of light. Mr. Green

browniebaobao SG

Cool

AshedAnna SG

If that's the case then ok. At least she's trying too. But don't whine too much because it would drain the both of you. If you're holding on to her for the comfort because obviously shes the only one who can give it to you, don't drain her. Find other ways and means to channel this jealousy. What youre thinking about is probably that she's been touched by another guy in a certain way etc. F it and at least she's with you now and she''s come clean. Give it time.

N|ck SG

You're right, but well what other ways and means can I channel this jealousy?

M©+square SG

By channelling your thoughts and energy to treat her well.

But ultimately, you've got to overcome it. In long run, it'll be benefitual to both you and her.

Devil1976 SG

Hmm.. Jealousy can be a pain in the neck for your relationship in the future... It can very often easily lead to a relationship with a weak foundation.. Be careful with that.

N|ck SG

Thanks for all your help guys.

I am glad I posted here, learned something. Funny how when you guys said "it's like that one" then it dawned on me it's true, although it was probably lurking at the back of mind all along.

AshedAnna SG

Its AA man. Whatever that bugs you I'd rather you ji tao whack everything here elsewhere. Best of luck. Time heals all wounds. As long as there's love.

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