gf betrayed

last SG · 2006-06-06T08:18:47+00:00

You are not lonely. You have a best friend that followed you 24hours and her name is ‘lonely’.

vivasg SG

Hi,

I was feeling very troubled, my gf betrayed me when she went oversea for few months, She treat me very bad during those times even i'm making so much effort by doing a lot of things for our relationship.
we had been together for 5 yrs. and I really love her. I managed to found this out and she finally disclosed to me after i confronted her. I'm felt very hurt. She said she dunno why this happen as she is very lonely that time.

She promised me that it will never happen again and she said she really love me.
Do you think I can believe her? give her a chance again?
It is really hurt to be betrayed by somemone that i really loved and when i was alone, i never betray her eventhough i had a chance to.

Now she's back and i can see she making effort for our relationship, but now i'm really afraid being cheated again. The pain is too hard to beared. I'm trying to recover but the image sometimes still flying through my minds.

Do you guys and gals have any advice?

laoda99 SG

betrayed as in?

BadzMaro SG

Betrayed u in what way ar ?

confirm is cheat ur @ss is it ? Once a playa.. always a playa.... until they reach 30 n know thier place then they become more settled down. But dun be a sucker to take her back... used n abused.

FORGET-ME-NOT SG

Because she is lonely??? That’s not a good excuse. Will she cheat on you again when she is lonely again??? Will you able to make sure that she is not lonely again???

Anti-RuleSS SG

I suggest you let her go. Lonely wasn’t a good excuse. So if you are lonely, you can go find chick too? Ask her to wake up her idea and don’t give lame excuse. Why don’t she just admit that she is having the urge to filrt with guys and she is feeling itch to try different guys? Human are just plain selfish, they do something wrong yet they don’t wanna admit their truth intention and still find lame excuse to cover themself up. If you don’t want to suffer in future, then i suggest you to leave her else you may get another shock sooner or later.

VampireEB SG

Blueskyz SG

If u wan her back... U shouldnt look back cos things wil not be or look good for both of u.

Since she's making the effort as u mentioned then u should give her a chance...

Wat I feel is both of u should hav a gd heart to heart talk to c hw u both can make the relationship better n be honest abt ur feelings, let her know ur concern n hw deeply u hav been hurt, n u really love her n wan her to be honest n sincere with her feelings...

But if its giving u the toll then u better not go further with the relationship cos in the end both of u wil b deeply hurt...

Good luck

field SG

leave the past behind

alexkusu SG

ask her if u could have an affair to aid the healing process

bladez87 SG

Laughing x2

kiss_my (_i_) SG

this is the story of mine,

though this is not recommended.

my gf broke with me, and reason is she want to concentrate in studies.
thn after few weeks, she with my fren.
and i really hate her and also my fren..
time goes by...
and i with another girl..
thn my ex and my fren also broke..thn i be with her again..
within 2 weeks i break wioth her..

revenge.

Gwangetto SG

sometimes, revenge makes u look childish or stupid. Laughing

Nelstar SG

Love is not like ABC. Not everyone reacts similarly to a situation and there is no perfect solution.

My advice: Follow your heart.

If you cannot forgive her then let go, if you can forgive her then you must learn to be able to cope with a repeat. If you cannot cope with a repeat, you must either let go or decide to change her mentality.

She might take you for a ride again.

Rolling Eyes

blowfish SG

dump her. simple as that.

Cenarious SG

She wants a chance? CAN! As long as she let you cheat on her once, too.

blowfish SG

logical speaking, she said she is lonely then cheated on you. why not said the love is not strong and she cannot resist the temptation.

banzie SG

http://kevan.org/brain.cgi?name=You+youself

Once disloyal.... always disloyal...

leungchunghong SG

GIVE UP on her. according to psychology, girl will leave u once she finds someone better than u in physical charactistic. GIRL tend to look at guys on phsyical aspect.

M©+square SG

Which psychology book do you take reference to? I wish to read it.

Cheers

MGGUN SG

The final decision lies onto your hand,.....Seriously being together 5 years and cant resist to temptation….Bull shit lor…..If i were you i think confirm let it go becoz in the end you will be the one who suffer…as you will alway think that the time she have betrayed you…...forget…move on with you life ….Its a difficult choice to made….ultimately someone have to suffer in this relationship….