gf betrayed

last SG · 2006-06-06T08:18:47+00:00

You are not lonely. You have a best friend that followed you 24hours and her name is ‘lonely’.

#$%^&* SG

I highly recommend giving her another chance.

I believe she will be very much more mature as a person and as a partner after this experience. Highly recommended to continue, as her character value has just increased ten fold.

If you can sincerely accept her, your character and wisdom will be propelled ten fold as well.

In this life, you will meet many challenges. Even when you are married, you will meet some relationship issues with your spouse. What's important is how you and your partner learn and grow.

Everybody make mistakes in this life.

If you love her, and I believe you do, you should accept, forgive, and continue on to the higher level.

Desmond Chow SG

Easy bro, just like how i treat my ex gf she also cheat exactly the same way your gf does. I make her pregnant and at her most vunerable time, ditch her after she pregnant. That's the way man.

secret_boy SG

I know how u feel now, cos something like tat happened to me. Was with my ex gf for close to 5 years, and 1 night i wanted to give her a surprise waiting for her at her void deck to pass her something and guess wat , i saw a guy sending her hm. When i confront her, she told me everything. I was so sad and disappointed. In the end she left me for that guy. Now, close to 1 year later, i still could not forget her. My advice is , if you really love her, give her a chance . Thing may just work out. Try to spend more time with her and forget how she hurt her.

babymac13 SG

In my perspective, I think the bonding of your relationship may not be strong enough to withstand any stormy circumstances. I understand that you guys have been together for quite some time, probabilty things will get saturated and mundane. It's usually takes 2 hands to clap and 2 of you to maintain the bonds continously.

Flash back your memories and recall the unforgetable memories you had with her as well as the occasions you might let her down. Think of the days if she's gone for good, can you live without her? At the point in time, you have to make your decision and decide whether is she still worth your affection and love.

Since she is trying to make up for you, why not give yourself some time to re-consider your relationship and decide later. Possible and hoefully you can start afresh again.

Although, it may sound easy to say than to do, but I hope you can at least give a try to patch up the crack or gaps between you and her.

Remember, we do make mistakes unconsciously at times.

snop_coolz SG

are u happier with or without her? sometime..short pain is better than long pain…

Devil1976 SG

Hmm... Not bad...?

Devil1976 SG

I'll give much credit for some of the points in this post also...

Devil1976 SG

Btw, how long was she overseas?

How old are the both of you?

How did you managed to find out about her betrayal? How did (and how long did) you confronted her before she made the confession...?

alexkusu SG

how bout mine! how bout mine!

it works tho...in desparate housewives season 2

passion_ SG

follow what your heart says. if her pressence is making you to love her back more, that's not true love but rather a love to forgive her actions. without her, you would feel the freedom and w/o much burden, that means you have fully forgetten her. for me, dump her soon the min "betray" is on one's mind.

FORGET-ME-NOT SG

You really did that? You ditch her and your own baby? You are a BAD man. Such revenage is cruel, you are hurting the innocent baby. You still have the consious to declare it in the forum. What did you get in return?

Desmond Chow SG

why? Is ditching a girl when she is pregnant against the law? Of course I did that and the feeling is shiok after taking revenge. She do this kinda thing I also can wat Evil or Very Mad hey it's just a women. If she give birth to that child, i bet she is having a hard time liao and the child will forever remind her of her shameful deed. Trust me bro, she ain't worth it don't waste your time and money on her. Just make her pregnant and then dump her and let me suffer on her own. There are still lotsa women outside waiting for you.

M©+square SG

Rolling Eyes

**Go back and watch your bleach....

dreamykite SG

Aiyah.. listen to your heart.. who doesnt stray??? that's human nature.. all gals like successful men while men like beautiful women.. who wouldn't try if given the opportunity???

if you still like her, accept her
if you cannot accept it as you think its your principle..bear the broken heart and had a clean break!!!!

Xmimi SG

Sad Sad Sad

FORGET-ME-NOT SG

Is not illegal to ditch a girl but after making her pregnant then ditch her is WRONG!!! The baby suffer, not her. You think you did the right thing??? Someone has to knock some consious into you. The child will not remind her of her shameful deed. The child will only remind her of you and her stupidness for being with you.

Forgive and forget is the best, just leave her. Once you forgive, you will forget very fast and you will have peace of mind. Don't do anything silly like Desmond Chow. He may regret oneday, looking for the kid that he had ditched on the road. Don't you missed your child?

M©+square SG

How did you find out and how did you confront the issue.

'Don't know why' is usually the reason....it leads to helplessness and confusion.

*pat pat*

Cheers

dokono SG

sorry if i were u i wud have dumped her.

where's the integrity she is supposed to show? so what if she is trying to make up to you? she have cheated before and she can do it again. Luckily you are not married. What if you are married? And she cheats again? How?

dcx SG

Laughing

This's what ppl termed "ar-sehole" as ...

dokono SG

u can be the most desirable male in the entire universe and there’s still a possibility she can still cheat on u. Some gals are like that. Look for a better one. Stop trying to find reasons to console yourself and face the truth. Once you get a new girl the old one is easily forgettable. Life still goes on. Don’t get held back by a gal. There are still better things to do.

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