I failed again

last SG · 2006-05-14T14:21:22+00:00

you need to host it first...try www.tinypic.com the use the img tag...

alexkusu SG

afraid to speak about what? topics like sex or chauvinist jokes? do you think the girl will have time to wait around for him to be her bf and listen to whatever topics he can talk about?

alexkusu SG

^5

Twisted Evil

soul_rage SG

hmm... are you seeking advice or are you just cursing at yourself? If cursing at yourself, I will help you kick you as well Very Happy

for the above, simply think thru the following:
a) What are you afraid about to say "I love you"?
If you are afraid of losing her if you say I love you, and she rejects you, then refer to b)
b) What is the likely outcome if you just continue like this?
If she is going to leave as well (as you say, lesser topics to talk), then result is the same as the possible result of a)

Thus if both a) and b) have the same probable negative outcome, then you already have the worst case scenario. If b) is 100% negative, then go for a).

missqi SG

Isn't that what a bf's supposed to do?
Lol.

dinky1409 SG

Be creative? Yeah haha.. I was in a similar position as the threadstarter and one day I send her this sms, " Would you like to be my BF? " (It's suppose to be GF) And she replied, " Haha no, but I would love to be your GF " And so that's how my love story started..
Hey threadstarter maybe you can try the same thing as me.. Wink

CKeer SG

Yeah. Be more daring. Courage is one of the key factor in a successful relationship. If u're afraid and wanna give urself a little bit of time, jus walk behind her, den slowly speed up and grab her hand. Yes. She'll be surprise and now all u have to do is give the most dramatic speech of ur life. Heh.. All the best dude.

Cheers.
C.K

Praetorian111 SG

If you are not comfortable with asking her in face to face you can always resort to other means of communication like e-mails, telephones or even SMS. In this way, it will make things easier.
Since she has already declared that she likes you it actually makes things easier.
Muster you courage and do it!
Wish you good luck.

Sekundes SG

Yo Down boy....
You're too hasty aren't you ?
I know its been a dragging long thing fro you and her but have you realised,
That she isn't intiating anything ?

Does this hold any meaning behind?

A few things,
your fear of rejection,
Her waiting.
Topics getting lesser.

Fear Of Rejection ?
Well, fear everyone has taste before,
Lets jsut leave it for you to deal with this thing.
But an advice,
Don't take it too hard for now...

Her Waiting

Don't let her wait too long, ladies don't like to wait.
If she is waiting that is.
Smile

Many people reading this post must be going:
"WTH she says she like you go for it man!"

For me well... I was thinking along those lines....
But well.... Bro you gotta work on your courage fast or your gonna be screwed.
HARD.

Topics Getting Lessers

Duh.
Not just friends, things get boring once in a while.
With your current problem,
its making the no-topic-to-talk-about situation worse.
Maybe its time you be talking to her about what you feel ? ^^,

__________________________________________________

Look here,
After all that is to sum up on it is...
Do it dude...
Hack with all the comments giving you advice, its all up to you.
Words won't do you much good but the last action for it.

Stand up and take the responsibility of a Guy...

dcx SG

Becoz of this sentence...you've won the battle 99% liao.....mostly ppl are in a 50-50 situation..not knowing if the girl or guy likes him/her or not....

For your case, she's just waiting for you to ask for her hand onli.....not difficult at all.....many guys would love to be in a situation like yours....for she has already told you that she likes you...how hard can it be to ask a question that you already have the answer before the question..... Laughing

mushigen SG

I beg to differ. You don't do it via SMS or e-mails or anything that involves not seeing her eye to eye.

By the way, I feel there is no need to say "will you be my gf?". It is a big turn-off, no?

Will you ever see Cassanova asking a girl, "may I make love to you?". Hell, no.

Sekundes SG

Well This is something new for him if he does that and the lady accepts...
Wow.

FORGET-ME-NOT SG

Yes I think too old fashion. Buy a big diamond ring and say whoever wear it will be your girlfriend and pass it to her. If she wear then she accept you lor. I confirm she will wear it unless your diamond too small or she really not interested in you.

Xcert SG

there is nothing we can do/say for hum ji…U have to overcome it yourself.

d3sT1nY SG

Drink beer or wine..?
Her Jiu Zhuang Dan.. O.o

archie84 SG

i too like you before ..... even now still is. If you dont do it now , i tell you next time you propose any girl also HUMJI !!!

Btw pls dont sent you love via SMS or Email that sort , its not sincere enough . The chances of getting reject using this way is very high. Ok even if she say yes over SMS , at the end of the day you still have to muster up courage to hold her hands. Very Happy

Anyway its seems that everyone over here say YES , why not give it a try ! ALL THE BEST DUDE Cool

walesa SG

So how will you have reacted had she responded positively to the above question? Razz

Komon SG

Aiyoh this 1 standard larh everyone knows lor! Mr. Green

irenenergy SG

lol.. cute

pwnz0r SG

You don’t even have to say anything. Just hold her hand and let things flow.

Rustyhong SG

Try this out ... its cute + romantic! It might work out for u too...

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