Something my colleauge told me:
" During that time, I had neither money nor career. But I was
sincere in my every move and dates. But how should I ask her? What
if I am rejected? Finally, the idea came. "
"I asked her out for a movie at cineleisure. While we were crossing
the road, I held her hand firmly with mine, not letting go even
till the ticket stand, popcorn buying and sitting down. I held on
until the lights dim and the movie was about to start."
"At the right moment, I whispered to her,"I hope this will be a
beautiful and wonderful starting for the both of us.'" Hands
clutched and I can sense no rejection, as her head tilt towards
me."
Now they are married with a daughter and number 2 is coming out
soon. Kan! Ang bao money not enough !
If you want it to be in SOP style:
Step 1: Ask her out for a movie, or a anywhere. Make sure that the
end location is somewhere you can whisper.
Step 2: While crossing the road, grab her hand like you would to a
kid, firmly.
Not too hard, not to gentle. Just firm. If she wants to fight it,
release after crossing and say:
" Too many cars. Better Be careful" . Common sense pls. No cars
ard, don say too many cars! Pick the right line!
Else, you are 80% warm and carry on holding. And please, got sweaty
palm, wipe before holding!
Step 3: Keep the holding until you wanna declare. Sensitive part.
Choose time n location! Also, just whisper ,
"it's going to be a wonderful and happy future for the both of
us"
... something like tat... Too direct, she cannot take it, or kena
reject, you still have some leeway to retrogate.
Should work for those who feel connected. Oh if you try n it fails,
pls don kill me...
Need a block diagram to see how it should work?
haha