Why don't you ask your fren to tell the girl to take the pill.
The pill not just prevent preg but protects the person from cancer
and heart trouble and so on. That is because sex hormones are very
bad for the human body but good for procreation, so evolution has
allowed it. Hey, you only live once, your body tells you. Male
hormone testosterone is also just as bad but no man in his right
mond will want to get rid of ot because sex drive also goes down
with it.
So 2 things, get the pill (there is also the morning after pill in
case of emergency) and don't be too hard on people who wants to
enjoy life just because you are a virgin.