I am not being anti christians or whatever so, but put yourself
into the girl's shoes. You are only 17, going to start poly soon,
and you found out that you are preg. You know that if your parents
knew it, they will kill you. You cant keep the baby, cos you know
that you dun have the means to support the baby, as you cant tell
your parents, you are starting poly, your bf is going to start poly
too, or going to NS. What will you do? Will you still teach about
when the church teaches you? How about you go back to the church
and ask them to support the child when its born?
If you said why dun they ask the church for help? The church will
surely told their parents, and after their parents scold them, what
you think they will do? Ask them to get marry? You may said ya,
that shall be the way. But what if they devoiced after a few years,
what is going to happen to the child?
They are not trying to be irresponsible, but how are they going to
support the child? Sometimes you have to think, by bringing the
baby to earth, you might be destroying his whole life instead? When
he/she grow up, what will he/she think? Why must my parents bring
me to earth and suffer, when they are unable to support
themselves?
And do you think that both of them will not be sad? Its their
flesh n blood, esp the mother.
I dun encourage pre-martial sex, cos the consequence after the act
will be great. But I always tell my friends, or even younger
friends, if you really want to have pre-martial sex, please use
protection. Although it is not 100% foolproof as not having sex,
its at least 99.98% safe. And the 0.02% who got preg after using
condoms are those who dunno how to put in on when using, causing
the condom to tear when scratch by their fingernails, thus it
leak.
This is my point of view, there is no right or wrong.
