analysis of your current position:
you 18:
1 - studying
2 - jobless
3- know nothing of adulthood
4 - before u try support her, can u support yourself first?
5 - can you afford to drop out of school to support your
girlfriend/wife to be..
6 - maturity wise, are you prepared to support her?? do you have
the means?
your girlfriend/wife to be 17:
1 - 3 months pregnant already
2 - baby is taking shape...life is starting...
3 - abortion later then that, will cause danger to both her and the
baby
4 - is she mentally prepared to take on the role of
motherhood?
5 - she needs you to be at her side when she is 1 - 2 months due
for pregnancy - for she may develop wild thoughts like pregnacy
depression; can you afford to stay at her side or get someone to
look after her
6 - she needs lots of nurients...which cost $$, can you give?
if the both of you aren't going for abortion, then both of you are
left with no choice but to give birth, and get ready to
marriage...perhaps...
1 - tell your parents
2 - their reactions - scold, get mad
3 - think of ways...to keep the baby
4 - if super protective parents, then will charge u for raping (not
sure bout this, but this incident almost happen to my frens' small
sis...
5 - there is an example of a gal who is already a parent at eh age
of 18, and her kid is being taken care by her mother, whereas her
boyfriend, in jail / boy's home, i can't remember clearly...
regardless of whatever you do now, you cannot think of yourself
anymore...think of her and legal issues involved....call the
helplines NOW!!
