it's easy for us to say "abort", but it's hard for you to make
the decision.
the way i see it is that both of you are definitely not ready to
accept a baby in your life now. taking care of a child is a big
burden, especially when you are due to enter national service, and
you have other priorities in your life now, such as preparation for
undergraduate study. I think she has other plans now.
Both of you are running out of time. If she does not abort now, you
have to live with your mistake for the rest of your life. She has
to live with her mistake for the rest of her life. Just remember,
it's not the baby's mistake. But the baby has no legal say, since
the baby is not considered to be legally alive.
cheers
geodome.
