BGR Problem: What should I do now

photo_seeker SG

I've recently got steady with my girlfriend for almost 2 months. However, yesterday out of a sudden she stopped messaging half-way and didn't want to reply me anymore. She only tell me that her classmates saw us together when we're out yesterday and no other details. I met her after school yesterday and went for a meal. Make a couple lock with engraving after that and headed home already. I don't know what's wrong.

With her being my first GF, I was very sad yesterday night that I nearly took my prescribed sleeping pills all at one go. Well, in the end I didn't because as a Christian myself, I know I cannot do it and the consequence of doing it is bad.

I really hope I can get some advices from girls here. Is it due to mood-swing because I didn't do anything wrong.

alexkusu SG

u think too much..

or not enuf details

casino_king SG

U are too young and she is too young to make head or tails of what a relationship is about. Take it easy and go one step at a time. If she pulls back, let her and just observe... just know that whatever bad feelings you are having now will pass. You will feel better after sometime.

Most relationship do not work out so you will be facing this type of "problems" over and over again....

HolySniper SG

ccall her la.... Rolling Eyes

mistyblue SG

just like you ran off and didn’t follow up with your purchase

Devil1976 SG

You wanna end your life just because of what...? Rolling Eyes

If you think you could get very upset over things, don't think too much... There're so many things which you still don't know what's happening... Don't spectaculate too much, let alone to kill yourself...

And like you've said, this is your 1st relationship.... I know it might be hard for you to accept and understand at this point, but don't be too narrow-minded... You can spend time with your sleeping pills, might as well you try to find more time to communicate with her...? How old are you btw...?

valerieee SG

maybe she is in a bad mood.give her some time to cool down first then msg her again another day.i guess by then after she has cooled down,she will reply to u.dun worry.

pinkygal76 SG

well, gals tend to be moody (especially if its time
of the mth) .....just dun think too much of it k? Razz

drx SG

girl shy not sure what to say to her friends.

give her time as long she is still talking to you is alrite.

usual starting sequence for relationship lar

normal lar...

photo_seeker SG

I didn’t take the sleeping pills at all just now.. Went to sleep instead.. She’ve replied me asking me to let her reconsider our relationship because of some reasons.. Although feeling better now, I still don’t want to lose her…

photo_seeker SG

I'm 17...

Devil1976 SG

Only 17 and you wanna kill yourself just because of this ar....? This is only your 1st relationship ley... If you die already you might be missing someone who could really be LOVING YOU SO MUCH during the later part of your life...? Or who knows a few years down the line you might just coincidentally meet her again...?

Nobod can really tell what would be in store for you in the future... Like Forrest Gump's famous mama said... "Life is like a box of chocolate... You'll never know what you'll get....." All I know for now is that if you choose to end your life now... It's just like sealing up your own box of chocolate.... You'll NEVER get to know how it's gonna end nor a chance to enjoy your chocolates...

In life, sometimes you can try to MAKE THE BEST out of THINGS.... But sometimes when you can't...? You can always go for 2nd or 3rd best...?

A Love relationship cannot be forced... Would you be happy to know that though she's by your side but she's really unhappy...?

ölala SG

What do u know?how old r u?
Right on still schooling i guess...

n what thinking of gulping down slping pills is already bad and naive

Grow up,u still have alot to see of this world

hiphop2009 SG

wah lau eh lucky guy 17 n u got a gf........i 18 also dun hav larh...........

hmm maybe she is afraid of frenz see u n her together ba...some pple like this de, dey will feel v shy when pple see dem with their bf or gf........

anyway even in the end u all break or remain as frenz dey are nth to worry abt....she is a mature in a way dat she tinks she nid to re-tink abt relationships....

ölala SG

say..u guys juz got together m i right?
so when she made the choice to go steady with u..haven she already done all the thinking she ought to have done?or is shejumping on the band wagon juz like everyone else..

Hey!i can read her mind...shes not mature for a steady r/s...
say juz bcuz her friend know abt u both being togetehr...shes thinking of backing out?
dosent she even udnerstand the fundemental of a r/s?
its not about u both..its about both u n her and the people around u..

think thro it boy!
whats important whats not
realise it now! Wink

ölala SG

hip hop ur wrong la...

considering her choice bcuz of being seen with her bf?
so ego comes first...DUMB!

dcx SG

Nearly took all sleeping pills at one go? one pill by one pill? Details? Laughing

Like that and you wanna die liao....cham.....

photo_seeker SG

Whole prescription for a week.

pwnz0r SG

Sigh, today's young people take such inconsequential matters so seriously. Not even a real problem and immediately think of taking your life.

It is that so unbearable?

1st sign of any problem and want to give up your life. Is your life so worthless?

I suggest you to reflect and go through in detail what's important in your life. I hope not to see you on ST, saying boy takes his life due to relationship uncertainty.

photo_seeker SG

Actually I got other problems which I've overcome. But I can't overcome this problem. Though I know we may not break up after she reconsider, I also fear that she will want to break up. And yes, the wait is very unbearable.

If you ever see me MIA from sgf and the next day paper report of a suicide case, then it's me.