My Problem

last SG · 2006-04-11T23:51:37+00:00

Might take a while to overcome that then....? Try chatting with a friend when you sit and enjoy your food next time then?

dragg SG

why dont you recheck the meaning of this word?

ndmmxiaomayi SG

Still have problems when ordering food? I have the same problem when it comes to people. Will stutter even when ordering food. Try ordering with a friend. Your best friend would be ideal. They can give you encouragement. As you get more comfortable, try ordering without your friend with you.

Ah Cek SG

Gosh dragg, do u hv a close companion to share these? s/he can also be a good source of distraction for ur problem...to make ur problem as if it doesn't exist.

if dun hv one, u can try to get some from here. there shld be someone out here to help.

cheers!

FBI SG

i suggest u recover first then get a work.

borntolive SG

hey u slutter? do u sluttler during presentations , intervies or cases when ur nervous?

Chelzea SG

Cheer up ,look at e bright side of life Mr. Green

life2121 SG

this may sound harsh... so when u sit in front of ur pc typing away do u feel nervous? i suggest u stop talking 2 ur pc n talk 2 pple face 2 face instead... as 4 job... try working frm home?

pls do not take it 2 heart... jus my thoughts...

R3SsH|n SG

try to do something you like?maybe being a boss of your own is your solution...

oh...with regards to stuttering while ordering food...always think about what u wanna say...then say it LOUDLY...this will boost your confidence...
(of cos...always say the RIGHT thing)..

dragg SG

i still experience the common signs (palpitations, difficulty in breathing etc) when eating in public places. but after say 5 minutes the feeling will be gone.

mancha SG

Find a shrink who is also a hypnotist.
Or
Constantly face your fears. Until it is no more.

ndmmxiaomayi SG

Hmm, same here. But mine is happened even after ordering food, I take a few minutes to calm down.

Perhaps you can try going out more. Usually when I'm out more often, this problem disappears. When I start to go out less often, the problem will come back. Hope it helps. Smile

king108 SG

So you type while standing? Difficult to call you for coffee since you can't sit..

Isis SG

can trying owning a pet like a dog to accompany you so that u can feel less lonely...

can try to work part-time? Do it slowly. The first step is always the hardest but once u step out of your comfort zone, things will slowly get better. You must trust yourself and have faith to work out of this Tunnel.. surely will see the light of the tunnel... once @ the bottom of the ocean, the only way is up..

ur problem stem from repressing feelings and thus trigger social anxiety?
there must be a reason why kena anxiety?

Sometime, being sick isn't bad.. u now have the time to relax, enjoy life, read a good book, travel, get a new hobby; make new friends, trigger old passions and rethink what you want in life... thus to move-on from there onwards.. to something better...

Regarding financial matters, er.. i can advise u to take things slowly and take things as it come.. like there u will feel more peaceful...

Isis SG

I heard abt it.. can try..

there is also a thing call drama therapy for those who has difficulty expressing emotions, needs and has social withdrawal; wanting to heal their past truma.. can find out more from ur doctor i think...

stellazio SG

try to be a social worker? Wink

seems to be able to help u both financially and mentally..

not much, but a good start.. Laughing

irenenergy SG

i think we share the same problem? i dont like eating outside alone.. i’ll try to hurry whenever im ordering food, but end up stuttering/not giving my instructions clearly and cause e vendor to be annoyed.. i didnt mean to, but its always liddat even if i thought of what i want to say to the vendor long before its my turn.. im always liddat when im giving a speech or talking to strangers..

dragg SG

is this supposed to be a joke?

Mr. Green

i am using the computer at home. of course i dont feel nervous, sitting or standing.

dragg SG

i am doing it now.

this is known as "gradual desenitization".

Isis SG

actually i was aso like there.... very bad, very shy, have difficulty communicating with people, cold, coop up in ur own world and problems...
but i have learnt to unfold myself and find my 'human' self back.

i was so fed up with myself and decided that I should do something about it.. cos i don't want to live my life tere way for the rest of my life. Pain/ Problems can transform you to be a better or a worser person. Ultimately depending on how you see it..

king108 SG

Laughing Ok ..got what you meant..
Government is taking care of those young and old worker. I think they will take care of your needs in a matter of time. Meantime, hold on to yourself.

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