*Shakes head shakes head*
Neko-chan...
I've always thought you're a very nice person, & very kind. But
when this is a genuine problem, have you considered the possibility
that this guy zi gan duo luo BECAUSE he thinks there is NO
solution? 
People look at how he's spiralling deeper & deeper into his
problems, & more & more outta control, & write him off.
Have you ever considered the fact that this boy is just a
teenager?
I admit, I have a low tolerance for whingers, but frankly, I
wouldn't give up on a young boy so easily when his attitude could
have stemmed from the fact that his family is so
dysfunctional.
FeowFeow