Hmm, I never said this isn't a geinuine problem mew~
I didn't dismiss that his attitude now stems from his family
problems. What he needs now imho is professional help and perhaps a
knock on his head. He needs waking up from his depression, as
friends what we can do is really limited.... It's like how can we
help someone whom doesn't even make the effort to help himself. He
is finding a solution to settle all his problems, but his direction
is wrong, what we can do is direct him towards there, not carry him
over there.
Pup can continue to advise him and stay by him in his hours of
need, but do take a step back when you feel he is spoon-feeding off
you wor... Lending assistance does not equate to
spoon-feeding.
I'm not the type that will give up on helping anyone de wor, but at
least make an effort to the road of recovery, not plunging yourself
deeper and deeper into the abyss