Let me share.
for me, I wanted a wife before I go into a relationship.
With that means real love, and with my eyes wide open.
I found someone who I can talk to, share my dreams, be supportive,
and even care for me. That magicial feeling when her hand slipped
into mine and hold me. We talked like we know each other for
ages.
And within 2 years, we are married, and one year later, we got our
baby son.
However, things like roller-coaster has went from high point to low
point.
We quarrelled and I find her quite irrirate and vice versa. We will
have small fights now and then. And the so-called love just went
out of the windows.
However, deep down, we both love each other and we know after we
calm down, we can resolved things.
For any relationship, there is up and downs. While you enjoying the
ups, it is the downs that builds character. When you are down, if
the gal stays with you and support you, you know you got a
gem.
A gf is not a trophy, a sex-toy, a money-tree, but instead is your
support, a person who loves you in good and bad times, shares your
dreams and interests...
For some, you will have high expectations, but do rem, with high
expectations, come high price. if you want a quality gf /wife, make
sure you give as much as you expect.
In modern times, where everyone is quite careful of being hurt, and
put on a mask, it is harder to find the true one. But if you want
something really bad, be prepared to work for it.
