Papergirl,
It really depends on the situation. If a person needs help
identifying a problem, or is too confused to think of his
alternatives, posting here may help. There've been a no. who've
given thanks privately to those who've helped them see the light,
or in the thread itself.
However, IF you already KNOW what you want, contrary to what may be
good for you, & IF you will only hear what you want to hear,
despite others meaning well & advising you on another course of
action, then you will NOT benefit from posting your questions
here.
FeowFeow