Originally posted by curiousOrange:
I would go out with that girl she introduced to you. No harm
meeting a new friend.
I agree with Sinicker with the possibilities he mentioned.
[b]She is not interested
and is trying to cushion the impact.
Since she enjoys being a pimp, you might as well oblige.
When the traffic light is red, you should make a U-turn and find
the next green traffic light. It is better than waiting
indefinitely.
She is running
some sh!te tests on you
The disturbing fact is that she is already 26 and still plays all
these mind games and sh!t tests.
I would be concerned about whether she can be a keeper in
the long run! Do you want to spend your life entertaining
a manipulative lady? Better think twice
But DO call her on her bullsh!t anyways
cos its fun to do so.

Meet that friend she wants to introduce to you. Show her a good
time. This friend of hers obviously has a decent amount of interest
in you. It shouldnt be difficult to impress her.
Cut down on your calls and emails. If your target is interested
(and is just playing mind games) and she hears about how her friend
enjoys the date, she will call and ask you why you are contacting
her less often.
Just tell her you have your thing going. Busy with your job and a
new hobby, etc.
If she teases you about changing your target so quickly
no staying
power etc
just tell her there is nothing wrong with meeting new
people. She cant argue with that.
Continue to meet her one on one and have fun when she initiates
it.
You left the ball in her court too early. But you can use this
opportunity she has given you to win the ball back.
I dont think you should make another formal confession again.
She heard you loud and clear the first time.
So either way
meet that friend.
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wow.... seems like the advice given here is real solid.... reali
hits the ground hard with serious impact....
ok will reali consider all your points made curious orange...
thks