The heady feeling you experience everyday in a courtship will
eventually fade as you get to know a partner better, understanding
their faults & differences in character.
It's only when you can accept those differences & faults that
the feeling of love grows. You know you can depend on that partner,
& vice versa, & you'll support each other.
If these differences & faults can't be accepted (it's an
individual choice, No right or wrong), then both parties best move
on rather than be stuck in a very unhappy relationship. However, we
should all bear in mind that there will never be a "ideal"
relationship. It's up to us to make it as perfect as we can for
us.
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