Originally posted by 798:
how about putting yourself in
their shoe?? the way i see it, you are acting insensitive, worse is
you can dig out pple past thread and mock at them. dun forget you
are a mod! n it's better to set a good example for having a
compassionate heart, if you can't give good advice, shut the fuck
up!
each person is unique in their own way, but pls bear in mind that
even the baddest person when he seek for help, does it seem you
will not help him? since he is not a gal?
anyway, i hope you can do a self-reflection upon your absense. we
do not want you to leave anyway. 
errm.. a little harsh nia? 