How about being a good listener and counsellor and then
blackmail people coz you know their stories and inner
secrets?

Anyway, mc, when you get into a relationship, actually its common
sense, but sometimes it aint common, that you should be only
wanting good tidings and also be prepared for the nasty
stuff.
Havent your past dealin's with people tell you that - the world is
ever changing, you cant foresee what is going to happen the next
day?
Why let go of the good stuff? Just hope for a better tomorrow and
expect the unexpected.
Sorry, i prefer the lassez faire approach than the 'damage control'
view.
