Hi all,
my friend told me a very sad story which I would like to share with
you..
She thought she had it all
a perfect husband, a 2-yr toddler, a
good career, a newly acquired flat and a car. She was grateful for
her good fortune but never thought that all will come crashing down
when she had her second pregnancy
Her husband, for unknown reason, went into shock and could not
accept it even though the second child is mutually agreed upon
initially. On her visit to her gynae, she and her husband were
informed that it could be a rare case of non-developing fetus and
to be given two more weeks for further observation by then an
abortion will be done, should the growth be stagnant. Her husband
went ahead to Japan for business trip on the day of clinical
appointment without offering to lend any support. She was
devastated when told that there is going to be no baby after all
and has to go through with the abortive day surgery.
Thereafter their marriage went downhill without her knowing why as
her husband became cold and distant
He distanced himself so much
that she could no longer bear it and moved out of the flat with her
son. It was 1 month later that she heard from his cousin that he
had committed adultery and the business trip was in fact a
rendezvous with a married Japanese woman. His lover is scheduled to
move to Singapore to live with him.
She accepted her husbands change of heart and without further
delay, initiated the divorce to give way to the couple. She
declined her rightful matrimonial contribution from her husband as
she knows that her husband does not earn much and has to do his
part for his lovers lodging.
Subsequently, he wept pitifully at every stage of the divorce
proceedings
requesting my friend not to proceed further. He even
said that the Nihon romance is over and will not resume even if he
is divorced, as he is now sobered to know that his lover who has
low moral values. My friend did not bulge in her decision because
while he claimed that it is over, both he and his lover are still
spotted often together round the island. When questioned, he said
it was on the ground that he is just helping her, a foreigner in
Singapore.
During this period, he left his company scandalized, as his peers
learnt quickly of what he has committed. He progresses well in his
new company, since no one knows what he has done before.
My friend and her son are the ones who are paying for his error as
she struggles with her house, job and her son. Day in, day out, she
rushed from childcare center to work, work to childcare center.
Back home, she has to handle their meals and household chores. She
refused to burden her family with what has happened to her. She
carried all these out silently and can only weep into the darkness
of the night after her son has gone to bed.
After the divorce, he completely complies with my friends wishes
and didnt bother to enquire after them, even though he knew about
their pitiful plight.
Her son began asking for his daddy when he turned 3. Feeling guilty
and tormented, she called his ex-husband and asked if he would like
to visit his son. He agreed, and the boy delightedly took to his
father.
He told my friend that he is equally pitiful as he wanders at a
loss during the night and have had no one for company. He works
long hours to numb his sorrow and guilt.
Upon hearing that and for the sake of her son, she took her son to
his company premises and asked forgiveness from her ex-husband for
her impulsiveness at filing divorce. Oh boy, was he furious when he
learnt of this. He verbally slashed out at her and refused to meet
them for fear that his peers in his new company will come to know
what he has done. He threatened my friend and left them waiting by
the road side. He only showed his face and forced them home when he
saw them leaving the premises for the coffee store nearby. Surprise
of surprise, he reprimanded her ruthlessly when she suggested
reversing the flat ownership and reinstating their marriage.
It was later that she realized with a few facts from his family
that all he said is a pack of lies and it is just a clever plot
played by him. He has been staying out, sleeping at his lovers
place and he is not as pitiful as he seems. He is still dock out in
his best personal clothes and grooming. He has changed new phones
while my friend could not afford one. He has cleverly strategized
his moves to have my friend proceed with divorce while he acted the
good guy who wants to salvage the marriage
once the objective is
attain, he finally showed his true colours and motives.
For such a shameless cad, I see the need to have justice done and
his deed exposed. He is getting scot-free and enjoying the success
of his career, his woman without paying a single cent for the
family he has abandoned while my friend (with her toddler) is
paying a high price for his sin.
He is working in a US-based leading EMS (electronics manufacturing
services) provider (located in Changi South Lane) who bought over
the local firm JIT Holdings back in Aug 2000. From what I last
know, he is handling a project under Hewlett Packard.
Although he has good looks and seemingly goody-two-shoes image, he
is rotten to the core
Hey folks out there, if you happen to know who he is, be
forewarned
dont be deceived by him. Remember still water runs
deep
and I hope he will have his just retributions soon.
