From all that you've said, I can only come up with 3 possible
conclusions...
1. This is in fact your own story, typed in 3rd party's
sense.
2. You're biased in your judgement. In fact, you're often(?) easily
provoked by your own emotions. (which is quite strong in this
case)
3. You're telling all truth, and the guy is indeed a very guilty
party.
But based on what you've stated in your original story...
1. It seems that you're more biased than not.
2. There are some calls for the defence of the guy, but you seems
very reluctant to defend him.
3. Your cause for the above (point 2) could be that you know the
story very well from inside out. And as you have CLAIMED, he has
ADMITTED that he's a VERY GUILTY PARTY.
4. He should not have admitted such to you unless he's very close
to you. Otherwise he could have just spoken of it in moments of
anger or despair, which greatly reduce the validity for your claim
for knowledge of the 2 sides to the story.
5. The way you've phrased it in your
story does not suggest you're close to him.
6. If you're really close to him, you shouldn't have post this to
spoil his reputation. (refer to point 5) Unless you post this just
out of anger or moment of emotional woes.
7. The way you replied suggest that it's not just emotional woes
you're experiencing when you 1st started this topic, but a lasting
one. Which suggest that either you're strongly affected by the woes
(you could be the involved party) or you're simply an emotional
person who post greatly based on what you FEEL and not necessarily
facts. (hence make your story and replies biased)
8. If you're really close to him and you still do this to him (post
this thread to spoil his reputation), suggest that you could be
even so MUCH MORE CLOSER to his wife (if you're not herself), which
gives further BIASED statements.
Personal note
Sorry that you have to read this, as I'm often not interested into
such details. Just that there're too many such threads as yours
around, and people who read them just BUY them based on their own
EMOTIONALS and NOT rational...
I admit that I do not know that guy and did not really speak up for
him. Just that many of your claims poked holes in my thoughts...
It's really quite 'easy' to ACCUSE (not saying that you're doing
that) someone and set up a thread like this without having really
to bear much consequences...
To other forumites reading,
I simply seized this as an example, many others which I've not even
bother to mention a word.. Pls read SENSIBLY and more INTELLIGENTLY
when you come across such topics again...
THANK YOU.
