okay, after reading the 2 pages of post whereby ppl are here
posting just wanna give u a tight slap on your face, i beg to
differ...
well, we cannot take sides...but just by having a balanced point of
view for you here...Mr Confused..
Firstly, ignore those useless slapping post that you have read
previously...they didnt have the similar experience so they
wouldn't know how it feels...a bit miserable as a matter of
fact...
judging from your case,
1 - you have a gf that you are attracted (not physically); well i
do agree, not all relationships evolves from physical attraction.
Sometimes it could be a cute thing that she did, or perphas caring,
needs protection that one you see that gal, you wanna protect
her... that's what i think of you as in your shoes
2 - the 'gal' that you like - you feel good with her..able to
communicate better (if comparing between her and your gf back
then)
although i agree to some post in page one which are quite sensible,
you may wanna take into consideration that you have to be
faithful.
the reason whereby the 'gal' don't accept you is because she isn't
ready...for she feels good being with you, but not at that time to
be ready to be ur stead..maybe she feels that she ignore you for
that day when u sms her saying you had just broke off with
her..this isn't something good to share with...but nonetheless,
some days after that sms, she still willing to chat and go out with
you...means that she is fine with being with you (maybe be a fren
for that time only)
should you wanna take things a step further, take things
slowly...do it at the right time...when its rather romantic time
together..then say it, dun pop the question when the feeling aren't
right..
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After so much of reading...here is my advice for you...choose the
gal which u can communicate...should you wanna get your gf to be ur
future wife to be...if you have noticed in the newspapers....lots
of divorce often happens when there is a communication
break-down...and a lack of trust....if the 'gal' have this 2, i
suggest you go for that gal...its better to cut things short and
simple...don't drag this too long...its not good for the three of
you at all...short term pain for the break is better compared to
when your relationship is at least a yr or 2 den break...that
feeling is much worse...
After so much...i hope you can find the answer to your question
that you have posted here...
choose wisely..
