Avoid the girl?

chunyong SG

do not find trouble until it find u…rule of thumb

Mabo SG

Thanks FeowFeow! What is your suggestions if I wan to steer clear?

M©+square SG

Confused

798 SG

sound like my case in the past... Neutral

Mabo SG

wat is your case? care to share?

798 SG

same situation like you. but i dun think i wish to tok bout it any longer cos if not there will be chao in this place. Laughing

if i could turn back time, i will avoid her completely... it's been a year already...

there will be hell to pay if you pitied this gal and start r/s wif her, you will sink in the boat wif this prohibited love. trust me, cause i learnt a painful past.

trajet SG

maybe i think full avoidance is the best.. dun talk to her or spend time with her.. just ignore her... but be careful.. your avoidance may turn back..
1. she can bad mouth u in the end telling that u r arrogant.. or the other way.. 2. she even likes/chase after u more.. becoz ur avoidance n ignorance is like u r 'cool' or 'mysterious'.. serious!! If she starts to chase u.. u only can tell her that u already like somebody that u can't tell.. then ignore her after that

megatron SG

Bro. u still hurting..? take it easy...I noe man..I noe....

Devil1976 SG

Certainly you don't expect her to go around the open world to tell everyone the problems she's facing...? Rolling Eyes

Devil1976 SG

You mean you wanna fall but don't wanna fall too deeply..? Rolling Eyes Question

It all depends on whether you have the intention of starting off a relationship with her..?

Mabo SG

Tat y i thinking stop seeing her, if not my feeling for her will grow. As you know once you are in, it very hard to get out.

FeowFeow SG

Mabo, there's No hard & fast rule.

Since she's married, perhaps you may want to place some distance between both of you, especially online, since it's online that she discloses alot of personal info to you.

Block her for awhile, until you get your thoughts & feelings sorted out. When you feel better, let her into your life as a friend again.

FeowFeow

de_middle SG

There's no such thing as a temporary blockage, if you wanna avoid, then avoid. If these feeling were not meant to be devloped any further simply bcoz you dun feel its rite. HIDE/RUN/AVOID, do what it takes to wipe her off.

For a relationship to start, you must first feel good abt it, if apprehensions keep detering you, might as well stop. Relationship mess is the most difficult to clear.

BUT only do it if you hold NO REGRETS. Becoz if you're a person who likes to REGRET then i suggest this:

ITS BETTER TO REGRET THE THINGS THAT YOU'VE DONE THAN TO REGRET THE THINGS YOU HAVEN'T DONE.

Devil1976 SG

Oh well.. I would like to tell you to just let your heart guide you and give LOVE the place it REALLY DESERVES...

But the TRUTH is, sometimes it comes with great consequences... I think if you've truly decided, just stick to your decision and see not regrets..

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