Originally posted by Oyathatsme:
laosu,
I don't give excuses. I telling you people based on my experiences.
You can't fully trust a girl 100% when you caught her lying to you
and not replying to your text messages and calls. What your gut
feelings tells you what's she doing, it's true.
When your women is going out with some guys behind your back, what
the fook are you still hanging on to your phone waiting for her
calls/smses while she's out with some guys which she never tells
you.
That's why 90% of the women end the relationship first. They can't
stand sore whiners like you who always give excuses that she's the
right one for me therefore i should give her a chance and she will
treasure me even more.
[b]Plain bullshit.
Once, ok. Twice, warn her. Three times. Dump her.
I'm telling you men to protect your heart. Why let a girl make u
suffer emotionally.
You don't build a relationship. You buy a relationship.
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I'll never agree to your comments even if you kill me. True that
there are girls who are like what you mention but don't sink the
whole boat just because of one woman. A man's heart has not much
diff with a woman's heart. You need some respect from them and they
demand the same from you. What gives you the right to demand
first?
I rather learn to trust, to respect and to love them first before I
dare to say I've done what I could to deserve some respect and love
from them. I do admit that after putting in so much and they still
betray my trust in them then is no longer my fault that they
strayed. I'll feel sad, but sadness will eventually go away but not
guilt. I've been through 9yrs feeling guilty towards my ex for
hurting her and for 9yrs I'm left with nothing but tortured by the
guilt.