Originally posted by Oyathatsme:
Only two words to describe
you.
SORE LOSER!!!
In the midst in a relationship, whenever this kinda
feeling/problem arises, the choice is yours. You don't build a
relationship. You buy a relationship. It's like a shirt when you
are searching in a grocery store. You look for the best that is
suited to your needs. Compare.
First of all, You won't find a shirt in a grocery store.
Secondly, a partner is not a product or machandise with no
feelings.
Thirdly, you wanna find the best, no problem. But bear in mind,
while you are looking for the best, the best is looking for the
best too. And are you quite sure you are the best? If you are then
I don't think you'll make these kind of comments.
[quote]You are a man. A women have to give and take into
what you want. Of course the man does too unless you are sure that
she's interested into you. Correction. In a relationship,
both parties have to give and take and not just the woman have to
give and take into what the man wants. Bear in mind again, while
you are choose people. People are considering if you are worth
choosing too. To make it more harsh, if I'm the girl you are going
after, for sure I won't choose you cause you ain't the best and not
even near it. At least not after what I read from your post.
You deserve someone better. In my humble opinion, your
girlfriend doesn't fit into my standards. I would just tell her
straight in the face I want out this relationship out.
I pray you'll never find a gf cause I don't want any woman to be
a victim of MCP. But then again I do doubt that you'll ever find a
gf. If you happen to be attached, I bet that girl is just a dumb
bimbo or a hardcore fetish who needs some wanking to moan.
You are acting like a girl in this
relationship.
If he's a girl in that r/s then you probably are the only man
with the brain in the wrong head.
Women are smart creatures. Smart enough to cover their
doings. I know.
You tell me she's inexperienced in a relationship, don't give
excuses.
I bet you suffer and end up being dumped first I can forsee in this
relationship.
Yah..if the gf is with you, I'm sure you'll suffer and end up
being dump. But then again I don't think you'll ever have the
chance of being dump cause you are seeking the perfect woman which
never exist.
When a women don't tell you who and which guy she's
going with, something is fishy.
Firstly, you as her other half, have the right to know who she's
hanging out with and where.
It's never always the case. Maybe towards you yes because you
are too narrow minded and everytime she goes out with someone
you'll act like a pig and start snorting. Who will want to tell you
who they go out with? And please bear in mind, we do have the right
to know who they are going out with but they reserve the right not
to tell us too. Just relax and learn to trust them. If they wanna
stray, there's nothing you can do to stop them. But learning to
trust your partners will in turn gain their trust on you if they
really do love you.
And of course you get edgy and attempt to get answers
from her, then you will come across insecure in needy in this
relationship. Women are good actors. Good liars. And we men always
believe them 100%. And when the same scenario happens again, you
still give in to her.
And do you mean that man don't lie? I don't even dare to say I'm
honest with my gf but at least I know she don't have to worry that
I'll stray out.
What I'm telling you is to be a man. Do not take any
nonsense from a women. Whether she's lying or cheating on you. You
end up in misery.
And when you start feeling miserable in a relationship, it's time
to tell yourself you don't deserve this shit and [b]move on in your
life.[/b]
Are you sure you are a man? In my opinion after reading both
your post, I think you sound more like a loser or a badly wounded
person injured by your ex-gf. God bless your ex as she found
freedom after losing you.
