Your
scenario is a common classic of people who still MANTAIN the
critical constant, even he/she may have change some variables. A
possessive man will gradually find himself suffocating his own
relationship. No matter how many different woman enters into his
life, the conclusion remained - critical constant not evolved.
Result will stay.
An average looking girl, who feels inferior about her appearance,
will ALWAYS feel negative about herself. Even if a man, comment how
good she appeals to him, psychologically she is unable to accept
this complement gracefully. It triggers her unloving automatic
thoughts and dismiss it as a sarcasm. If steps are not taken to
correct that mindset, this poison will sap all aspects of her life
and create hinder progression.
Your karma is a gallery of cosmic debt collected in your
unconscious. It
kinda shaped your circumstance that you are put
into - like the scenario above. Somehow, it seemed
to me that you labelled that as your 'destiny' and how 'going
against it' creates misery and suffering, but technically speaking,
it isn't so. In fact, how you handle your own karma
makes your destiny. Destiny cannot appear without
you making a decision and handle them, just like the next chapter
of a story will only appear if you read on.
It seemed to me that you are keen to decipher part of this so
called 'destiny' and work towards a better ending, regardless of
the outcome. You might find your answers in Astrology.
P.S: Don't see Destiny as complication. Solve your complication
through Freewill and understand Destiny lies in your hands.
Cheers
