I agree with you. In the local context, care giving is probably
the most difficult question to solve. There are probably only a few
choices a couple can decide from:
1. One party quit and become the caregiver - may not feasible
because of the high standard of living.
2. Nanny - good nannies are hard to find.
3. Grannies - not many people have this option.
4. Maids - To me, the worst of these options, but families will use
this maid as cook, cleaner, car cleaning service, sometimes private
tutor.
So for practical reasons, option 4 is the most logical - for some
families.
I am glad that I have option 3, plus my family spent lots of time
doing stuff together, so as a a family unit, we are very very
close.