Maybe u wont need to get scolded... By this time sure u have
learn in a hard way how sometimes this type of women do really
exists... flinging around, saying that she likes u and also to
another guys she meets... U can't blame them, they love to fool
around, make use of guys to get what they want... ... Hopefully by
this u can be more careful and don't get into the similar situation
next time. Only love somebody that u sure ready to commit with u as
well... SOmetimes its better to see her direct actions, not the
sweet words... If somebody loves u.. she wants to be with u ALL THE
TIME...
Originally posted by chong-ster:
i got to know this gal abt half a year ago... everything
was fine btw us, and we were v close, but she told me she didnt
want to get into a relationship for the next month or two. i was
fine with it, and never bugged her to be with me or whatsoever.
------ [b]If she say she didnt want to get into a relationship..
believes it! If she really loves you.. she wont turn u down like
this
she's been telling me she yearns to be with me, she wants to be my
partner, but deep down inside, i think she doesnt mean it. ---
Maybe she only wants to be just a friend.. like her other
guy friends, so again.. she really doesnt want it serious with
u
abt a month ago, she left me, and i knew it was because of a guy.
but she claimed it wasnt because of him and she had no feelings for
him. but i knew she was lying, because my friends saw them out, and
told me abt it. i also read her text messages sent to/from him...
she told him she missed him, missed his hugs/kisses etc...-----
She lies to you, so what are you waiting for? You cant
trust her anymore... Even if u and her together next time.. she
will be a liar.. period...
i asked her about it indirectly (not telling her that i read her
msgs) but she still claimed that she'd already given him up because
she only feels for me. not long ago, she again, told me she loved
me, but just today, i read her messages again, and she sent one to
him. saying that she wanted to meet him for a while, to lock
lips... Action speaks louder.. u cant get the truth by
asking her, she's good in lying and u are one of the
victims
many times i told myself to hate her and move on, but everytime she
talks to me or appears in front of me, i'll just hopelessly fall in
love with her again. i know its bad of me to read her text
messages, but... i just couldnt help it at all. --- I know
its hard for you.. the best is dont bother to be friend with her
anymore.. delete her phone no. from ur handphone.. if not, this
will keep goin on and on until you totally lose respest from all ur
friends.
i dont know why she still come up with lies to keep me with her,
when so obviously she also wants to be with the guy too. maybe its
because she wants the best of both worlds. i know i hate her for
doing this. and many times i've told myself to hate her to the
core, but i just can't. -- Please leave her alone.. Its
useless to do anything.. U are just out from her list to be her
bf.. U r keep letting her to make use of you if u continue to talk
to her
she knows i've given her my best and almost everything i have.. but
she still doesnt want to be with me. im fine with it.. but which
guy can accept a girl who keeps another guy with her too???? ---
Fine with it?? Maybe u can for short term, but this way is
like you let her torturing ur heart and letting urself lose ur self
respect... You have to do something...
maybe im just hopeless and dead stupid.
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