This Aus man just broke up with his partner and was seriously
depressed, scared of loneliness at home. He worked for a public
transport company and has a nice income. One day, he came back from
work; on the way home, he met a lady with two kids who just
migrated to Aus from Singapore. Her husband remained in Singapore
because other commitments. The wife and the kids went first. They
were on their way looking for accommodation. The lady and this Aus
man had a good conversation on the way.
Not long after, he needed to have an operation. He went to the
hospital and there he met the lady again. She worked there as a
nurse. During the time he stayed in the hospital, she was taking
care of him. Somehow later, he asked her to move into his house.
She decided to move in (?). They lived together in the same house
for almost a year and the relationship had developed to a certain
level (?). Her husband after one year came to Australia to join
her. She moved out and rent a place. The man became a family
member.
However, she always comes back to visit this man with food and
shopping grocery for him, or some take-away for him she cooks from
home. She often works on weekend night shifts, and every time she
goes to work, she stops by to sleep in his house before she goes to
work, she doesnt like to sleep in her house???. If she arrives at
work, she often calls him at mid nights as he says she looks after
him because he is lonely??? They often have long conversations over
the phone because night shifts do not have a lot of work. They
share emotions and feelings about different things. And it carries
on and on. If she cant find him, she will call him again and again
to reach him, even it is 2am??? Every time, the man has a dating
with others, she keeps calling, and also wants to join if the man
was going with the other woman(??? )although weekends she was
supposed to stay with her family and the kids. They often arrange
travel together without her husband. Sometimes, he brings her to
the countryside to visit his mum and they both stay in the hotel
together(?). They often organise time to go out together without
her husband (?)
Her husband came to Aus without employment, and later found a job
as casual blue worker in a factory. He is hard working and tries to
keep up with a new life in Aus. But it seems so hard. He trusts his
wife like the time they were in Singapore. But something is going
on and he doesnt know? The other man enjoys her accompany because
he needs s/o to fill his loneliness; but behind he goes to tell her
to his friends about this relationship. He said he really likes
Asian women??? She comes to him voluntarily??? Perhaps, he may have
enjoyed something for free from cost and free from disease (?). "It
is to release the need
No man can live without a woman for that
need
I never want to go to find in public
This Au man continues
to walk in and out in her family and the husband must have been
blind.
I feel sorry for the husband as he is in a weaker position with no
security for employment in Aus, trying to struggle to survive and
maintain the family as possible. His wife just goes to discuss
family issues with the Aus man, and does something her husband may
not know or know, but he cant say because he is afraid of loosing
everything. This Au man happens to be my friend and so shares with
me his secret story as perhaps the lifestyle of white man
??? I had
tried to find out if he had any secret relationship before I gave
me a chance? But sorry I dont want to have such a friend like him.
So I ended the friendship with this guy.
It may happen that you (the lady) and A (her close friend) read
this story online here. Please, come back to your husband and the
kids. They love you and trust in you a lot. Dont betray them. I
dont want to involve in your family problem, but I feel sorry for
you because this Au man doesnt love you as you think. He told his
friends about your relationship with him and considers you as his
entertainment for needs. Wake up! Go back to your family and sleep
in the right bed! I use this forum to tell you because it is
impossible for me to make it known to you. You are a professional
who has higher education and a beautiful family; dont let him use
you as entertainment. More or less, Asian women can be target for
white mens entertainment in Australia. Listen to A, your close
friend. My writing here is the evidence telling you what he has
been saying about you to me and even more than that.
To the public in forum, if you have a beautiful wife and plan your
family to migrate to other places, please dont let her come
alone.
