I am the same. It is impossible to see myself share the man I
love with s/o else, then it may happen we carry a disease
transferred from the "public rubbish bin". I would not also never
accept myself to be like that. What is a dignity of a woman, a
moral value of a wife , and a mother!!! Whatever society you live
in, this is a choice we make for ourselves. I have friends who are
black, white, and of course "yellow" (Asians), but in common sense
a normal person will not expect this in marriage life. This is the
first time I have heard of a kind of "open
marriage"...Weird!!
It is very weird! That guy came to me and said about her. He also
told his friends too. And they laugh at Asian women!! Specifically
this Singapore woman and her husband. What A Shame. They all said
the man got addiction to Asian woman and he couldnt lift his feet
out!!!??? And he just laughed??? He also told me it was weird to
him about her husband. In reality, This Aus doesnt love this woman
and pass a story around . I know a lot because we are in the group
of friends.
Since I refused his friendship, he kept trying to contact me to
explain that he is genuine friendship with me. But you know what.
Whenever I remember his face, I really want to vomit when thinking
everything he said to me and I have seen in my eyes. I can't even
accept to be friendship with him becasue there is no respect at
all. The last response I said to him, ' I dont know how deep is yr
relationship with her, but as an Asian woman, for me , I won't
accept myself to act such behaviors. I have no repsect to this
woman, and please dont introduce me to know her becasue we are so
different in concepts of living . I dont belong to this group of
people. I have my own respect to my body, to my dignity, my moral
values ...sth I can define myself to know who I am.
You are mature at what you are doing and you make a decision for
your life. Stay away from me and please , if you respect me, dont
call me becasue I have no intertest to be around these weird
people." And he doesnt anymore. I feel better now not to be involed
in this weird r/s.
