I do not know the woman he is currently courting. I am his
ex-colleague but both he and I have joined new companies. This lady
is a colleague of his in his present company.
Guess some of you are right, if she got involved with him knowing
he is married, who am I to meddle. Nope, I am not doing this out of
revenge, tho I hope I was. 
ok then, will leave it to "tian" or god to punish him... 