Bro, this relationship of yours, aint gonna last too long, cos
if it does, i'll eat my PC. The crucial element in all successful
relationships is 1) Mutual respect 2) Trust 3) Retaining
factors.... Allow me to explain, 1) Mutual respect is paramount in
a relationship, cos it allows each other to have the latitude to
live as unique individuals. In your situation, your gf wants things
done her way all the time. She doesnt even have the scantiest
respect for you. Put things simply, she doesnt love u, she loves
herself, and she is trying to sculpt you into a reflection of
herself, so she can get things done easily and faster. Still dont
get me??? Basically, you're a fu*king maid, driver, Personal
assistant, washing machine, whatever possible assistance you could
render her. 2) Trust. If there's no trust, there will always be
lingering suspicions of each other, always being cynical, being
sceptical of his or her motives, intentions, even if they may be
genuine. If thats the way things are going, do you think that
relationship can withstand all future tribulations ? 3) Retaining
factors.. One crucial and often underestimated factor of all
successful relationship is RETAINING FACTORS. By that, i mean,
WHATs in you, that he or she cannot get easily from others. For a
guy, if he is earning a good salary, bless with a athletic body and
great looks, then the gf will think twice about jeapordising the
relationship. Ask yourself, do you have any or many retaining
factors that puts you way and above most guys or potential
competitors?? If not, then i guess she's just taking you as a
temp..
Think over and good luck. Just remember, all that glitter aint
gold
