hi,
I have been married for 2 years, and have a son who is a year old
plus. My wife is a PR from HK, 3 years younger than me, consider
young and full of hope and pride. And im already 31 this
year.
Since married, I have been the only one working to provide
financial support. My wife refuse to work in SG, and on the other
hands she need to take care of my son. The point is SG living
standard is high, I do think that there is an option for her, if
she really wants to help this family grow. As a housewife, I do
think that its not easy, but she does has plenty of time, I would
say no worries, living each day.
She still contact her ex-bf from HK. Both hardly meet face-to-face,
but do communicate frequent thru' instant messenging. And she has
not tell her ex-bf that she already married, yet still lie that she
live as a single mother, living in UK, taking care of our son. I
dont understand why she cant tell her ex-bf about me. Honestly, I
do peep on her instant message history, i cant help but to look for
answer for myself.
Both communicate well, and her ex-bf does want to provide her
financial support and hoousing in HK. I trust my wife will not get
involved in this kinda third party relationship, I can trust
her.
However, the issue is i have been tolerating this, and its not fair
to me too, as if im sort of her secret 'husband-roommate'. Im very
tired of this hide-n-seek relationship. I did told her about this,
and i tell her that im interested to meet her ex-bf, but to no
avail. Pls advise, everyday this issue in my mind makes me getting
tired, asking myself is my contibution to the family worth doing
it. For me the worst senario is, without her ex-bf knows her actual
marital status, she still gain a chance to re-unite, as least a
back-up in a married life, if our relationship fails....
Pls advise...
