Originally posted by M©+square:
Tell you what, maybe i am really having problem with this
post of yours. Take it that this is a personal attack.
Really, it doesn't matter to me. Pls do not take it that i am
replying as a mod but purely a forumite.
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I'm not sure if you do know what will happen if a scenario really
happens to be like what you've advised.
[b]Why like i've
stated I will not and CANNOT endorse to your post earlier because
it regards another PERSON's ESTEEM personal and confidence.
It regards public Shaming.
It regards immature handling of situation.
It regards RESPECT to other person.
It is a sheer disregard to another person's feelings.
There sure are ways to disregard a person's feelings. But this
method is by far in my experience the most
DownRight.
Can you imagine everywhere you walk on the street, you see one
person proclaiming to the public he/she doesn't want to recipocate
the other party?
Yes the message is delivered well and clear to the listener
and public.
Is it Matured and respected?
As what expense was it done to solve the problem?
Does it have to succumb to such tactics which i only see in Ah Beng
and Ah Lian couple quarrels?
Let me ask this question: IS there no other better solution than
what you've posted? If there is, why did you post such alternative
and not a better solution?
I'm sure any of the advices are less childish compared to that
post.
Utmost Eagerness for your defense.
Cheers
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I've personally suggested this myself in one of the other
threads. I think in some cases, we just have to 'harsh' to the
other party to bring the message across. You can call it whatever,
but this method does have its own hold and reasons in some more
extreme cases... However, just to note...
The topic starter has already suggested that she does not wish to
hurt the other party. Hence this method is certainly not very much
advisable in this case.
