yea i agree with you . so kimo you should be thankful ya bf is
quite a sentimental person , i know you worry that you are just a
substitute but ya gotta give the guy and yourself a chance , and
concentrate on building ya future
instead of worrying unduly about his past and maybe one day when
his old wounds have fully healed becuase of you , he can take out
his old stuff and put it somewhere else becuase he has so much of
"both ya stuf" to place ard .