Oh, ok then he didn't confuse people 
Honestly, I feel sorry for some of the posters here. But it can get
kinda confusing when I get PM'd, & they ask for my help. Then
when I tell them what they don't want to hear, they declare to me,
"I'll wait for her forever" or "I'll try until the end" or along
those lines 
So, if your mind is made up, why ask FeowFeow?
Naturally, I don't answer, because I
disagree, but then they'll come & say those things again in
another PM. What do they expect FeowFeow to say? I can't validate
their decision, because I don't agree, even though I do empathise
with them.
FeowFeow