I always believe in throwing people into the hot caldron before
explaining myself. So far, nobody died as a result. 
I firmly believe that one must go through some form of love crisis
to understand certain principles. Some principles are ONLY obtained
through experience, while others could be gain through learning,
enlightenment and proper wisdom.
P.S: Love complex question, somehow, have simple-easy-to understand
wrong answers. 
Cheers