My 1st Love, when we broke up, I held a torch for him for many
yrs, hoping to get back together with him yadda yadda yadda. Thank
goodness I didn't!
Otherwise I
wouldn't be so happy & fulfilled now 
It's scary to think back & realise that, if I'd held onto that
belief, I would've missed out on the biggest love of my life!
Perhaps I might've been called "devoted" by some, but I'd rather
Not be held in high esteem, & instead, be able to experience a
true love story in my lifetime.
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