Big surprise for ex

last SG · 2005-08-03T12:16:16+00:00

Oh well. Take care and good luck, pal.

M©+square SG

Not that i'm impatient. Thinking of something else. Close to this topic la. Mr. Green

drx SG

I suggest that you do something for her instead of buying things for her.
Like a pic album of the times you were together, to remind her of the fun and laughter both of you once had.

using this method will test whether she is playing with you or she is really wants to patch back with you.

Buy a simple cake, find a place for a nice dinner and then give her the pic album.
If she dumps or quickly just flip through the pic album it shows that she no longer loves you. If she still treasure your love she will looked at each page carefully with tears in your eyes.

Is up to u to decide whether is worth to go after her again or not but I hope that you will be able to accept the fact she may reject you again. Once you are prepare for the worst, then is time for you to face her once again.

rammstein619 SG

Yes the ultimate decision lies within me but whatever I do , I'm responsible for my own actions....

Whether I'll become a millionaire on the next day after her birthday or an emo goth freak , I'm still responsible for myself Laughing

Mao x 2 SG

Laughing .. what's in ya mind, MC?

M©+square SG

I'll post it in another thread in datin.sgforums.com

Regarding a close pal having opportunites. But he always missed it. Not because he couldn't handle. But he like to play it all TOO cool.

Another opportunity comes along. I gotto give him a hand, don't want him to lose it this time.

Wink

Mao x 2 SG

I see. Will look forward to ya thread. Wink

FeowFeow SG

Actually hor, these too bo chup guys should combine with the si3 chan2 lan4 da3 guys, then the 2 negative qualities will neutralise each other, & they'll become perfect Razz

FeowFeow

Mao x 2 SG

NOthing is perfect anyway wor.. Mr. Green

FeowFeow SG

Hmmmmmm... *ponderz*

Ok, just for discussion's sake, have you ever wondered:
Would a person who's absolutely perfect be perceived as unattainable by other people? Hence they probably won't want to chase him/her anyway? What about the person who's absolutely perfect, would he/her want to accept a partner who's flawed, unlike him/herself?

Then, if 2 people, who're flawed, deeply love & accept each other, & are very happy together, wouldn't their love be just perfect for them, warts & all?

So perhaps Not being perfect may be perfection in itself to some people?

I talk until I dunno what crap I'm saying Mr. Green

FeowFeow

mahai102 SG

in singapore girls are plentiful & easy to find...why the rush? i'd blow your ex off with a smirk...she's not worth it...money digging cheebye...

spend the $100 in geylang instead...you won't find love but for sure you'll find fulfilment...

if all else fails...vietnamese brides are cheap & easy to get...

sometimes it ain't worth the trouble to get worked up over a materialistic bimbo...

Laughing

Mao x 2 SG

Love is not about finding the perfect one.
It's about loving an imperfect person perfectly.. Is that what you mean? Laughing

BadzMaro SG

Man..after reading so many replies from so many wonderful people, i have come to a conclusion that 90% of the people are giving u reasonable and understandable statements whereas to NOT get into it too much! But i know u still got ur doubts.. o.k..lets just say u give the benefit of the doubt..mmm...mmmm.. i wonder.. hmmm.. i bet the middle girl.. is playing with ur balls.. or they BOTH playing with ur balls. Only way is to ask ur ex. ' DID U SAY U WANT *the things stated*' only way for u to find out.. i know its a bit harsh but better then u not knowing.. if things turn out good. u can just say..'coz i dun trust ur friend, i love u baby.. just checking'' Twisted Evil U need to co-relate the stories...because if u dun.. thats why there are lots of people out there being suckered. Ah fudge it.. just spend the 100 bucks..why spend it on something meaningful like smokes...booze and drugs rite? '

FeowFeow SG

The smokes, booze & drugs sound like a better idea in this situation, actually. He'll need it to numb the pain, because truth hurts Confused

FeowFeow

Mao x 2 SG

The best way is to accept the truth and get on with life.
Smokes and boozes won't get him anywhere. Rolling Eyes

chunyong SG

Screw her then scram off ! Do it quick ! heh

rammstein619 SG

I would not be as quick to classify her as a money digging cheebai because as far as I know , she was NEVER that type....

I think her friend (the messenger) is the one who is scheming all of this , putting words into her mouth but then again I might be wrong.

Until I find out that who the money digging cheebai is , I'll be prepared for the worst...

FeowFeow SG

Well, maybe they'll still help in a way to soften the blow?

Anyway, he's underaged Mr. Green

FeowFeow

FeowFeow SG

You know, foul language is Not classy. Honestly.

When I was younger, I used to think it was cool (teenage years). Now, I understand that it makes 1 look very unrefined.

Anyway, Nobody is pointing accusations that your ex, they're just giving you their point of view, which is what you asked for. If you feel the need for defence of your ex, & you're Not willing to accept others' viewpoints, AND you perceive others of trying to defame her, then I would suggest that perhaps you:
1. Either Not post, or
2. Have an open mind.

FeowFeow

rammstein619 SG

Guess I wasen't really much of my usual self yesterday. Did a lot thinking concerning your replies which stressed me out a little bit. My entire mind was centred around this topic so much so that I have trouble concentrating on my books.

Well , a new day has finally arrived. If you tell me to smoke , no thanks because the last time I ever had a real puff , I fell sick for one whole week the very next day. So I guess it was kinda a bad experience. If you tell me to drink , I drink in moderation. Laughing

Anyways I sms her last night to ask her to meet up to clearify some issues with her. The reason being I wanted to test her sincerity in all aspects. Seems like I've yet to get a reply from her AGAIN (as expected). Something fishy is cooking up...

rammstein619 SG

With $100 , I can buy 4 months worth of playtime for World of Warcraft.... Laughing

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