Hello astroseal,
I may like to suggest that this jealously is totally
heathy...
You may like to haf a heart to heart talk one day w ur gf,
sometimes like clearing the closet, u must tell her wat`s
botherong
so u bring out everything..
Let her know that you love her and the 3rd party is affecting ur
love,
if ur gf is understanding of ur feelings then i guess she will not
do it again
she needs to be reminded that you do love her and minds the fact
that she`s smsing another guy....
Otherwise another way is to do the exact reverse
`` if you can`t beat them, join them !!``
get ur gf/wife to intro you this man,
make frens w him, and understands him more
1:
if he don mind, ask him along to ur outings and dates and
stuff
then u perform PDA let him see.. piss him off..
i`m sure he can`t tahan for too long.. even if he`s some feelings
for ur gf, he`ll too be sian 1/2 when he sees u all PDA..
if he can piss you off, u can retrun him the favour
2:
really get to know him as a fren,
then tell him that u really mind him smsing ur gf so often
-- this is rather hard thou, u need lotsa patience and self
control
In my own humble opinions, don be faltered by this guy, if he
pisses you off, don worry, u can do the same back to him and piss
him even more,
just make sure u start on a good note w him.
it`s something like reverse sacarsm, show to him that u`re lagi
closer to ur gf than he is, he`ll give up very soon..
Good luck and cheers,
BaByBoY
