juz_A_gal SG hey all... first time posting here. Anyway, would like to find out if it's possible for a guy to go for a massage session that is actually purely for the massage? i know i should trust my guy... and i really did! just that.... i don't know.. i saw something.. and just made me feel uneasy... afraid he's going to those massage parlours for more than "just a massage".............................
Devil1976 SG It's CERTAINLY POSSIBLE that one is just going for the sake of a MASSAGE!! If you're really afraid, you can.... 1. Do the MASSAGE for him YOURSELF... (Hey! It's FREE, so who should be compaining...?? ) 2. Request for him to go to those MORE RECOGNISED and STANDARD places where 'extra services' are IMPOSSIBLE...
icebaby0 SG TOTALLY 100% agree with his suggestions!!! Or get him a package of few massage from those places as a Valentine's DAY PRESENT! And then of course, he can't reject...
blowfish SG most massage parlour do provide discreet service meaning zhuo hei... As a guy ( without the intention of sexual activity) went inside, it sure a hell of temptation. Depends on the guy ding li.. But as a girlfriend, u should never allow yr bf to go massage parlour unless YOU WITH HIM! [/b]
Kenashi SG Originally posted by blowfish: most massage parlour do provide discreet service meaning zhuo hei... As a guy ( without the intention of sexual activity) went inside, it sure a hell of temptation. Depends on the guy ding li.. But as a girlfriend, u should never allow yr bf to go massage parlour unless YOU WITH HIM! [/b]??? unless they are going to spa lah!!
progene SG [quote]Originally posted by ditzy: You go with him, or request the person doing the massage for him is a guy massuse. [/quote oso can... sumtime guys massuse does a better job den a female(I haven try those guys massuse yet.)Oso i dun quite trust guys massage me, wad if he's a gay n wanna sum hanky panky! Dat's y i always go for female wans. (I go strictly for e massage service only hor, bie xiang Y ) But overall, no matter wad, ur bf ding li mus b gd....cos inside a rm with e female massuse n ur bf, jus 2 of them, anytink can happen wif $$ So my advise for u is either do massage for him or both of u go for e couple package (where both of u get to enjo being massage in e same rm + Spa package)
juz_A_gal SG i stumbled upon his sms ('cos i accidentally pressed the wrong shortcut) and saw something abt a masaage session called off. so hey.. i have no idea where or who is doing e massage. i did do for him before but i sucked at it... at least i think so. sometimes i do give a short one too..... guess i'm just not good enough.............. thanx for the replies guys... yes.. i'm giving him e benefit of the doubt... but juz let u guys know too - "massage" is another one of those words that scream "ALERT" to a girl. it's hard to just "forget abt it" for now.. but i'll try....
vroomvroom SG give him the benefit of the doubt. but nevertheless, he cant be wash off all suspicious...
fumih_81 SG well if ur bf is going with a grp of guys, den i guess chances of that funny type of parlour is high... my friend ever told me he kena cheated into going such parlour when his guy friends jio him..when he asked if the parlour is that type....they say its not...end up when my friend felt that the massage lady doesnt seem to know how to massage him....he asked her "are you really a massage lady?", she said "no" ... later he did ask her how much usually she charge clients... anyway he wasnt in for that thing, so end up both of em just plain talk while he waited for his frens to finish up their businesses.
juz_A_gal SG i hope it was just one of my paranoid moments. hey, it's only cos i really love him that i'm afraid... BaO.. that's hilarious.. i think he'd say he rubbed it off when he pee or something. hahahaha!~ massage course.. ahhh.. ishould.. maybe next time.. 'cos i'm trying to study and work already.. dunno how much more i can take in already... thanx guys... oh.. and ya.. i also think if a bunch of guys going together, then yes, chances of going to a lup sup parlour very high...................... *which also explains my worries cos e msg seemed to imply a grp of them going.
